2nd Date Jitters

I recently had a second date with a girl that I really liked, we had an amazing first date and I was very nervous going into our second date. The ironic opart is I am by nature a very relaxed person so it was out of character for me to be nervous. The tough part is you think (like I did) that the first date was so amazing that you HAVE to live up to that or better ... we were meeting at a restaurant, I arrived 15 min early and that helped, I simply said to myself she is no better than me, she is on an online dating site like me so when she showed up a cool cool relaxing chill came over me and the rest of the night I fell into the zone. We had another good date... The lesson, no need to stress, the worst that can happen is she doesn't want a third date.

This is so true!

Remember, she is also nervous, just like you!

I think sometimes we get inside our heads too much that we forget the other party is nervous about the date as well.

Great post fjp!