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somuchfun is offline somuchfun Post #1  December 14,2009, 6:53pm
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I've been reading some Chemistry Threads and it reminded me of a past relationship. Let me paint a picture, we were both single and never married, known each other for about 1 year, but not so called "dating" and just friends. We did a lot of things what dating couples would do, so after about several months I finally asked what we were.

She said, quote “you are handsome man and possess everything I want in husband but……..there’s no chemistry.” What?!?!?
 
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somuchfun wrote :
I've been reading some Chemistry Threads and it reminded me of a past relationship. Let me paint a picture, we were both single and never married, known each other for about 1 year, but not so called "dating" and just friends. We did a lot of things what dating couples would do, so after about several months I finally asked what we were.

She said, quote “you are handsome man and possess everything I want in husband but……..there’s no chemistry.” What?!?!?
Frends with benefits and you got confused. No need for chemistry majors, at the very least both of you had fun learning human biology!

Next question!
 
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She was confusing lust with love.
 
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She has no lust for you. Sorry.

I don't expect this can be salvaged in most cases ... and do you really want to be with someone you "settled" for you?
 
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No there were no friends with benefits at all. So that rule can be thrown out.
 
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Chemistry is a vague thing.

Each person has their own definition.

Some people think chemistry is purely looks while others look for common goal and others look for a gut feeling, and some are looking for soul mates.

when she said you were handsome she was saying you seemed to be attractive---but not attractive to her
 
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No there were no friends with benefits at all. So that rule can be thrown out.
Your safe? But she wanted excitement?
Some buy that lie ya know. Its not you. Shes a little wacky?
 
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somuchfun wrote :
No there were no friends with benefits at all. So that rule can be thrown out.
What the heck...I thought you said you did lots of things that dating couples would do!? Maybe I assumed too much... sorry

So whatever 'things' you did....unless you're talking about dating in the 40s....you don't need to be dating to be tandem cycling in the park!
 
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ami1uwant wrote :
When she said you were handsome she was saying you seemed to be attractive---but not attractive to her
From a woman's standpoint.... bingo!

Sorry, but you are firmly entrenched in the friend zone.
 
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chawks64 wrote :
From a woman's standpoint.... bingo!

Sorry, but you are firmly entrenched in the friend zone.
I'm not a woman (last time I checked!) but this was my first thought too.
 
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