luv2taxu is offline luv2taxu Post #1  November 23,2009, 10:05am
luv2taxu's Avatar

Newbie

Joined: Nov 2009

DC

Posts: 8

See profile

oh well
Last edited by luv2taxu; November 25,2009 at 2:23pm. Reason: Clearly I'm not going to get a response, so nevermind.
 
  Reply With Quote
TheZohan is offline TheZohan Post #2  November 28,2009, 5:07pm
TheZohan's Avatar

is always keepin' it real!

Newbie

Joined: Jul 2009

Posts: 9

See profile

Well that depends on how the date went. For me, no chemistry = no 2nd date...scratch that, no call back, no email, no text message, etc.
 
  Reply With Quote
D_Lion is offline D_Lion Post #3  November 28,2009, 5:09pm
D_Lion's Avatar

- Ladies want to wring my neck - you have been warned!

Sage

Joined: Aug 2008

Posts: 31,659

See profile

Maybe it's because you don't have much to say?
 
  Reply With Quote
Nanette is offline Nanette Post #4  November 28,2009, 5:12pm
Nanette's Avatar

~ giving gentle smack-downs... vewy vewy gentle

Power Poster

Joined: Jun 2008

Posts: 7,451

See profile

Do you work for the IRS?

As for second dates, it could be for any number of reasons. I think with online dating it generally has to do with appearance/chemistry. We lack a lot of information about someone especially concerning chemistry when it comes to online dating, so as much as I think everyone should think I am fabulous, if I don't get second dates I try not to take it personally
 
  Reply With Quote
indigirl1975 is offline indigirl1975 Post #5  November 28,2009, 5:13pm
indigirl1975's Avatar

Pacesetter

Joined: Apr 2008

Indiana

Posts: 329

See profile

D_Lion wrote :
Maybe it's because you don't have much to say?
 
  Reply With Quote
Gr8Guyn2008 is offline Gr8Guyn2008 Post #6  November 28,2009, 5:30pm
Gr8Guyn2008's Avatar

I'm crippled by the fear That I've fallen too far to love

Sage

Joined: Jan 2008

Orlando, FL

Posts: 19,670

See profile

luv2taxu wrote :
oh well
This is a curious thread. According to the time stamps it was originally posted on November 23rd, edited on November 25th but I have not seen it until today. Given that I am on the Advice boards everyday and a lot at that this is rather curious. Seems that maybe no one else saw it until today since that is the first response.
 
  Reply With Quote
Gr8Guyn2008 is offline Gr8Guyn2008 Post #7  November 28,2009, 5:33pm
Gr8Guyn2008's Avatar

I'm crippled by the fear That I've fallen too far to love

Sage

Joined: Jan 2008

Orlando, FL

Posts: 19,670

See profile

Nanette wrote :
Do you work for the IRS?

As for second dates, it could be for any number of reasons. I think with online dating it generally has to do with appearance/chemistry. We lack a lot of information about someone especially concerning chemistry when it comes to online dating, so as much as I think everyone should think I am fabulous, if I don't get second dates I try not to take it personally
So at least to you "chemistry" is solely a visual thing
 
  Reply With Quote
D_Lion is offline D_Lion Post #8  November 28,2009, 5:39pm
D_Lion's Avatar

- Ladies want to wring my neck - you have been warned!

Sage

Joined: Aug 2008

Posts: 31,659

See profile

Gr8Guyn2008 wrote :
This is a curious thread. According to the time stamps it was originally posted on November 23rd, edited on November 25th but I have not seen it until today. Given that I am on the Advice boards everyday and a lot at that this is rather curious. Seems that maybe no one else saw it until today since that is the first response.

All things in dating are stranger than you can imagine.
 
  Reply With Quote
Nanette is offline Nanette Post #9  November 28,2009, 5:41pm
Nanette's Avatar

~ giving gentle smack-downs... vewy vewy gentle

Power Poster

Joined: Jun 2008

Posts: 7,451

See profile

Gr8Guyn2008 wrote :
So at least to you "chemistry" is solely a visual thing
no not at all. its a combination of things, but what is missing online are things like mannerisms, the way the person carries and expresses themselves. well maybe that is visual but not in terms of physical attractiveness. i hope that makes sense lol
 
  Reply With Quote
LivingBetterLonger2009 is offline LivingBetterLonger2009 Post #10  November 28,2009, 6:15pm
LivingBetterL…'s Avatar

Quick Study

Joined: Oct 2009

Posts: 115

See profile

No first dates in my case, lol.
The same is for me on the post...all I saw was "Oh well."
 
  Reply With Quote
Reply


« kissing | Dating | Saturday night roll call - Holiday style! »
Topic Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search

Posting Rules
You may not post new topics
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts
BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is On
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off

Similar Topics
Topic Topic Starter Board Replies Last Post
3 dates in, no physical reciprocation. finished? cuddler26 Dating 30 November 28,2011 11:24am
Is there a difference between weekday and weekend dates? Sawyer76 Dating 81 December 11,2009 9:39pm
Your Great Dates ? Seneca Dating 10 November 13,2009 7:27pm
Long Periods of Time Between Dates wiccangirl Dating 6 October 26,2009 9:31pm
Three Great Dates... but nothing more? ot123 Dating 9 October 23,2009 6:38am

Looking for a Great Relationship?

Get started now. Fill out this form and take the questionnaire to receive your matches.

First Name:

I'm a:
seeking

Postal Code:

Country:

Email:

Confirm Email:

Password:


How did you hear about us?


Latest on our Dating Advice Discussion Boards

“but isnt' "comedy" subjective?” –  richey

Join the “I think I blew it...” discussion

“"So, at what point did you decide I was only going to be a one-date kind of guy?" Hi Carole, I am late to this thread. Thanks for such an interesting topic! My initial reaction was to think ... ” –  SearchingHoping

Join the “My first "Matchmaker" date” discussion

“A little tough love... The lesson here: date married men at your own peril. The man was married when YOU began a relationship with him! You keep calling him divorced. Not when you were with him. Once ... ” –  emma_hazards

Join the “Reuniting with EX” discussion

“Thanks, DancingFool!!!!! I deleted all but 2 pics. I kept the 2 most recent pics. I will work on updating pics soon, hopefully this weekend. Thanks! Suzanne” –  SuzanneScorpio

Join the “Photo Review” discussion



All times are GMT -8. The time now is 3:11pm.

Discussion Boards Archive

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.4
Copyright ©2000 - 2012, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Friendly URLs by vBSEO 3.6.0