Gr8Guyn2008 is offline Gr8Guyn2008 Post #11  November 23,2009, 6:24am
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She has gone out with you twice. Ask her out again.
 
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I wouldn't worry about "no flirting" and "not much positive body language" after just 2 dates. Some people are more demonstrative and some are more reserved. You said her eye contact was better on the 2nd date than on the first ... that most likely means she's a more reserved person and is becoming more comfortable with you.

If she keeps saying yes when you ask her out, you are cracking each other up, you hug goodnight, then it's going well so far. Good luck!
 
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Thanks for all the thoughts everyone! I agree girls always say "give me a call again" or the like just to be polite. I guess I was ignoring the fact that she said that.

After a few days I've realized that I was actually bored on the second date. The first date the conversation was awesome but last time I had nothing to say. She kept talking and I was trying to pay attention but I found my mind wandering.

So I suppose it's my fault since I wasn't putting out the best vibe. At least I've gained some experience to add to my small pile of dating knowledge.

Thanks again.
 
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Gr8Guyn2008 wrote :
So what you girls say at the end of a date don't mean squat!
Unfortunately - you are right on this one.

But you go meet a guy - you are a little disappointed, but he paid for dinner (though you offered to pay half), he seems like a nice guy, but...

And then he asks you if it's OK to call - and there are people around and you don't want to hurt his feelings or embarass him in public, so you say "sure".

And part of you is thinking "no way" and part of you is thinking "he seeemed nice" and you really haven't had time to process things.

So you go home and you think about it and you decide you don't want a friend, you want a boyfriend, and he ain't it.

So you e-mail him and tell him it's not OK to call.

So, what is the best way to handle that part at the end of the date? And, what if you really aren't sure how you feel?
 
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