m90092003 is offline m90092003 Post #21  November 29,2009, 10:24am
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Either person can intiate the kiss, these days. Traditionally however it is felt a man should. As for how many dates until kissed, well lets just say this much I've been in 2 relationships and there have been no kisses.
 
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Atlguy38 is offline Atlguy38 Post #22  November 29,2009, 10:50am
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I will initiate it, but almost always wait until the second date. I do like it when a woman initiates it though. I usually wait until I see a clear sign that she wants me to. From my experience, women will let you know.
 
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back in high school i initiated my first kiss. i actually playfully dragged the guy (he went very willingly) into the bathroom and locked the door where we were making out till some people (teachers that apparently saw us go in) started banging on the door.

That was the last time I initiated a kiss.
 
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Cathy61 is offline Cathy61 Post #24  November 29,2009, 11:29am
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If a man did not kiss me on the first date, there would be no second date. I like to think that I am so sexy that they could not resist. When I date, I am looking for more than coffee or dinner. It could be a hug and kiss on the cheek if the guy is afraid of offending me. But no physical contact at all would me a signal that I am not attractive to him.
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Nanette wrote :
back in high school i initiated my first kiss. i actually playfully dragged the guy (he went very willingly) into the bathroom and locked the door where we were making out till some people (teachers that apparently saw us go in) started banging on the door.

That was the last time I initiated a kiss.

It might be time for another try.

Likely to turn out differently!
 
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Cathy61 wrote :
If a man did not kiss me on the first date, there would be no second date. I like to think that I am so sexy that they could not resist. When I date, I am looking for more than coffee or dinner. It could be a hug and kiss on the cheek if the guy is afraid of offending me. But no physical contact at all would me a signal that I am not attractive to him.

In this case I think you should either initiate or ask him to kiss you.

As you can see from reading the thread, other women do not want to be kissed on the first date.

Not kissing does not mean lack of attraction.

I'll admt, though, to not being as aggressive as the women tend to prefer, so I am thinking I will be more aggressive if I try again.
 
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Cathy61 wrote :
If a man did not kiss me on the first date, there would be no second date. I like to think that I am so sexy that they could not resist. When I date, I am looking for more than coffee or dinner. It could be a hug and kiss on the cheek if the guy is afraid of offending me. But no physical contact at all would me a signal that I am not attractive to him.
That is not a good system at all hun many women don't want kissed on the first date or touched period. Unless you give a really clear signal most guys won't attempt it
 
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I know it's uncharacteristically old fashioned of me but I like the man to initiate the very first kiss but I do help, he'll be in no doubt that's what he's supposed to do. I'm not unreasonable.
 
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