jayjay is offline jayjay Post #131  November 23,2009, 6:39am
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...things seem to have gotten quiet around here.

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If you get along with her sister so well, chances are you will eventually get along with her pretty well too. Alot alike? From what you can tell anyway?
The sisters are quite a bit alike...but definitely have differences. For example, while they're all quite friendly and affectionate the one I'm seeing is a little bit less so than the others (and I've been told not just with me). There also are a number of small personality differences between them that are a little more difficult to define. The one I'm seeing is also a little more motivated than the others...working and going to school full time. She's also the only one that hasn't gotten pregnant yet.
 
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jayjay is offline jayjay Post #132  November 23,2009, 6:43am
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...things seem to have gotten quiet around here.

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j0hn8andy wrote :
So how come her sister (your girl) isn't coming to Thanksgiving dinner?

If you want extra Brownie Points, bring 3 bouquets of flowers. Or 3 corsages. The wife, & both mothers. The wifes's could be just a little nicer than the other two. Your girl is sure to hear about it. And with both her mother and sister singing your praises.....
The sister who is married to my friend and their mother are the only members of the family who currently have a VISA to enter the U.S. The others could likely get one with no trouble...but just haven't been motivated enough to do the paperwork.

Thanks for the flower suggestion....but flower corsages really aren't my style. Pretty much every time I go see them I take some small gift for the family like a cake (last time the kids got a whoopee cushion, lol). And anyway, at this time I'm not worried about getting brownie points with the family, they pretty much love me already.
 
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jayjay is offline jayjay Post #133  November 23,2009, 6:48am
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nightling wrote :
Why can't you talk to the girl the way you do her sister? What would be wrong with that?
I'd definitely be able to talk with her this way....but I just have little opportunity to do so. We did have 5-10 minutes like this and had a nice talk alone the previous weekend, laying on the bed alone together only a couple feet apart, her asking me to smell her hair etc....which led to my premature initiation of a kiss. In the future I'll be resisting that urge for a while.
 
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I'd definitely be able to talk with her this way....but I just have little opportunity to do so. We did have 5-10 minutes like this and had a nice talk alone the previous weekend, laying on the bed alone together only a couple feet apart, her asking me to smell her hair etc....which led to my premature initiation of a kiss. In the future I'll be resisting that urge for a while.
Looks like you're in a tough spot. Don't have any words of wisdom. Just wishing ya good luck.
 
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What an interesting little journey you're on, JayJay!
 
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