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Andrea8823 is offline Andrea8823 Post #1  November 9,2009, 8:18pm
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But I've been talking to a guy I found on eharmony for the last week. Up until today, we've either texted or talked online everyday. We texted/talked online for like 4 or 5 hours last nite, and I think it went really well. He ended up having to go because he had to wake up in 6 hours for work, and he said he lost track of time. I assume cause he was enjoying himself too.. hopefully atleast.

He didn't text me today, or sign online. I know he's probably just busy. But the pessimist in me can't help but be worried. I didn't text him either, because I don't want to seem clingy or annoying. Any input? Thanks
 
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Slow down the horses! lol! You have not met and have been talking for a week.

Be careful you guys don't out pace yourselves. Sometimes, you can get ahead too quickly and there is no bridging the gap when you meet.

As for over-thinking this, yes...let the guy sleep and get some stuff done in real-life. lol! I am sure you will hear from him again.
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I agree. If you talked for 4 to 5 hours last night then he likely has to catch up on a few things today.

A day off or 2 sounds good after a lot of communication.
 
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I agree that he probably needs to get some things done. Since you haven't met I suggest that in your next communication you bring up meeting in real life. It is easy to get excited but you really need to meet and see how you feel after a face to face.
 
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yoga_gal wrote :
I agree that he probably needs to get some things done. Since you haven't met I suggest that in your next communication you bring up meeting in real life. It is easy to get excited but you really need to meet and see how you feel after a face to face.
Yeah I agree... we have plans to hangout Sunday. Just have to figure out what we'd like to do. He suggested going out for sushi.
 
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Andrea8823 wrote :
Yeah I agree... we have plans to hangout Sunday. Just have to figure out what we'd like to do. He suggested going out for sushi.
Yeah, Andrea! I hope you have a great time and you will let us know how it goes. Since he does want to meet you I think it is all good. Best of luck!
 
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Yeah, Andrea! I hope you have a great time and you will let us know how it goes. Since he does want to meet you I think it is all good. Best of luck!
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