I met a guy on EH 4 months ago. We hit it off since the first date so we saw ourselves often at the beginning. He works a lot of hours and sometimes works shift work so I told him that I understood and that I would try to work with his schedule. Well after 2 months of seeing each other, It really just became a casual sexual relationship. I don't think he saw it that way but I did. We never did anything but go to his house to hangout and watch movies. He was always too tired to do anything or take me out. I communicated with him that I was looking for more than a casual sexual relationship and that if we were not on the same page then I didn't want to see him anymore. So I cut him off.

Last week I ran into him at a club. Shocked me cuz he doesn't really go out. He was happy to see me and we talked, had some drinks and had a really good time. Maybe it was liquid courage but he kinda opened up to me a little bit. He told me he was shocked that I cut him off. That "he really liked me, couldn't I tell"? I told him I didn't know what to think since he never wanted to do anything or been seen with me I thought he "just wasn't that into me". He said he is just not good with communication. That I did not annoy him like other women do. I guess I should take this as a compliment? Anyway I decided it to give him a second chance. He invited me to his work xmas party next month and a party for tonight. Well, I decided to text him since I had not heard from him since I saw him on Thursday. He told me he did not feel confortable going to the party after all since it was more of a family party. I didn't get a call or text to let me know. I then text him back if he wanted to do something then and he said that he was not feeling well and that he was weak and tired. What??? Seriously???

I am so frustrated with him right now. I had decided to give him a second chance but I don't think this is going to work out. Is he playings games with me? I need advice please.