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ah, the halloween fiasco. We had a mini-argument about that.

But it turned out to be a great night. He met with some friends for dinner (it turned out to be more of a birthday party than costume party) and I met him after that, which was easier for me since it was a Friday and we live an hour apart. Not easy on days I work. And I really didn't have time to come up with a costume since I was travelling that week.

so, yes, I got out of it entirely
That worked out well for you. How is the rest going? Not bringing him to your company party tonight? Too soon or don't go there Lizzie?? lol!
- November 7th, 2009, 04:27 pm
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cp30 wrote :
you could benefit from a hot date

Now that you have an unused dress ...
- November 7th, 2009, 04:30 pm
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I will trade some sound pre-purchase analytical decision-making for some Hotness!
- November 7th, 2009, 04:35 pm
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That worked out well for you. How is the rest going? Not bringing him to your company party tonight? Too soon or don't go there Lizzie?? lol!
lol....yes, a tricky topic. Actually we did talk about it and he offered to go with me, despite the fact he probably would not enjoy it due to formalities and small talk....however, we had plans last night that were more interesting to us both

Mostly, though I didn't want to burden him with the office party...and yeah it is a bit soon to introduce him to the colleagues....and to be honest it's a little scary. I guess you could say we are an inter-racial couple and he has a heavy accent (from South America) and to be honest that does make me feel a bit protective in a way, when thinking of introducing him to people that might form judgements quickly. Of course he is more educated and accomplished than all of them, but I'd rather not explain that to all of them as an introduction...lol
- November 7th, 2009, 04:37 pm
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I will trade some sound pre-purchase analytical decision-making for some Hotness!
very good!

And I'm sure you would appreciate the fact that my dress will double as a New Year's Eve party dress....if I have a date that is...it is versatile.
- November 7th, 2009, 04:38 pm
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D_Lion wrote :
I will trade some sound pre-purchase analytical decision-making for some Hotness!
Pre-purchase? You mean about cp buying a condo?

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I did like your idea about buying a house and having college renters to pay for college. That is a bright idea, if one can afford the house. I filed that one away. Not that I have a kid but maybe if I need to get a degree at some point in my life or just want to rent out property at some point.

Problem is...now that I am old, I would have a problem sharing my space. But still, not a bad idea at all.
- November 7th, 2009, 04:42 pm
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I think when it does come time for introductions, just let him being him speak for itself.
- November 7th, 2009, 04:45 pm
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Wow...things are slow here tonight.

I have to leave for a bit. You guys have fun (and get something interesting going on out there. I am in the mood to ponder. lol!)
- November 7th, 2009, 05:13 pm
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LizziePooh wrote :
I am in the mood to ponder.

I recommend pondering me!
- November 7th, 2009, 05:16 pm
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Wow dead here. My homework is not looking like a chore anymore.
- November 7th, 2009, 05:46 pm
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