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Sawyer76 wrote :
I remember the first time a guy gave me his number to call, I freaked out and did nothing for days.

I will pay you back by taking forever to marry!
- November 7th, 2009, 07:38 pm
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Sawyer76 wrote :
But, what is really the worse that can happen?
Ya know what ... you really don't want to know the answer to this.
- November 7th, 2009, 08:03 pm
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I was also hesitant to speak to a match, but I decided to go for it anyway. He was just as nervous, luckily he had a great sense of humor about it. You never know until you try. The point of meeting matches on EH is to get to know them and see if there is a connection between you. I guess your level of interest is a factor too. Are you really interested in him or not?
- November 7th, 2009, 08:05 pm
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Luvnushooz wrote :
I was also hesitant to speak to a match, but I decided to go for it anyway. He was just as nervous, luckily he had a great sense of humor about it. You never know until you try. The point of meeting matches on EH is to get to know them and see if there is a connection between you. I guess your level of interest is a factor too. Are you really interested in him or not?
That elusive thing called chemistry only happens for me in someone's presence. I really can't tell that much from a photo and text.
- November 7th, 2009, 08:12 pm
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Nightling - Thanks for bringing this topic back.

After reading the replies so far I think the best idea is to make a phone appointment.

This way you both know when you will be talking & can plan around it. You won't risk catching him at a bad time or a busy time and then feeling anxious because you called when he couldn't talk comfortably and (heaven forbid) have to call him back! (Aaagghhhh!!)

Do this for yourself. Every call after this one will be smoother for you.

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- November 7th, 2009, 08:17 pm
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