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Yea, she didn't calll me either; what's up with that?

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- November 6th, 2009, 10:49 pm
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You could just call me instead.
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Something mucked up.

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VB_Girl wrote :
First take a deep breath, he's probably just as nervous as you are now. You should email (or text) to find convenient time to talk. Try and keep it short if you can (some guys are actually phone people and will carry on a long conversation ) and maybe suggest coffee or a drink as a way to end the call if you are interested in meeting in person. Or you can send him your phone number and let him initiate the call.
I can't say nervous describes it. I am not nervous. I just feel it is creepy and strange to call someone I don't know at all in this context.

If I knew him, I wouldn't hesitate to call. It's not as if I've never asked someone out before ...

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you could do the secure call thing and have him call you. or you could just give him your number...
- November 6th, 2009, 10:51 pm
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D_Lion wrote :
Yea, she didn't calll me either; what's up with that?

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Gee, D, you sure know how to make a girl feel special.
- November 6th, 2009, 10:51 pm
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The very one. Thanks.
- November 6th, 2009, 10:52 pm
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D_Lion wrote :
Yea, she didn't calll me either; what's up with that?

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Trying to save on your phone bill?

He heee I am cracking myself up. I need more wine.
- November 6th, 2009, 10:52 pm
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nightling wrote :
If I knew him, I wouldn't hesitate to call. It's not as if I've never asked someone out before ...
Everyone is a stranger until someone decides to say "hi" ... or "aloha".
- November 6th, 2009, 10:56 pm
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nightling wrote :
I can't say nervous describes it. I am not nervous. I just feel it is creepy and strange to call someone I don't know at all in this context.

If I knew him, I wouldn't hesitate to call. It's not as if I've never asked someone out before ...
We all talk to random strangers and it is a little odd talking to one by phone, but hopefully you've learned enough through email to relieve the creepiness factor. Good luck!
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