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I am sorry things did not work out. He seems to maybe have issues relating to others! You will find a good guy, one that is interested in you as well. It can't be a one way street.
- November 8th, 2009, 01:19 pm
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You are very sweet, Emme.

You are covering all of your bases really. By remaining friends you will still see if there is more in common. If the topics broaden then you may find yourself attracted & if not then you have a nice, kind friend.

Good luck.
- November 8th, 2009, 01:50 pm
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bigfincat wrote :
You are very sweet, Emme.

You are covering all of your bases really. By remaining friends you will still see if there is more in common. If the topics broaden then you may find yourself attracted & if not then you have a nice, kind friend.

Good luck.
I am more than open to things improving with him, but it's been a few months and it's the same. I told him I need to take a break from dating for health reasons and asked if we could be friends instead of dating and he said sure, so maybe it's not really there for him, either. We'll see what happens. I'm not looking for a guy for quite a while. If one finds me and he's a great guy, that's fine, but I have to focus on some other stuff for a while.

Thanks for everyone's comments.
- November 8th, 2009, 02:17 pm
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