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I think there's only so much I can control, and even then, sometimes I don't want to control anything. Am I attracted to certain men more than others? Yeah, but could I really tell you why? No, and I wouldn't really want to. Do I choose with whom I choose to spend my time? Yes, definitely, and that is something I do control. Can I control whether or not a person likes me, is attracted to me, or will pursue me? No, not really. All I can do is be me, be true to woman I am, and accept that while I'm not everyone's cup of tea, to someone I'm going to be simply amazing. Hopefully this will happen before senility sets in for both of us!
- November 4th, 2009, 06:00 pm
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Since the only dates I ever get are from eHarmony I certainly am not in control.
- November 4th, 2009, 07:49 pm
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Can you be in control if you give up all control and just let fate take you where she wants to take you?

That is my plan. Less disappointment that way....
- November 4th, 2009, 07:56 pm
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