Advice and Support from Thousands of Users Just Like You

Dating First-date jitters? Hoping for a second date? Moving on to a full blown relationship? Share your journey and advice here.

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools
LizziePooh's Avatar

LizziePooh would enjoy a song.

Power Poster

Join Date: May 2008

Posts: 5,172

See profile

jayjay wrote :
Fair enough. But, the original premise of my thread addressed the view of people who have previously written on 'baggage' threads and who disagree with your view.

With regard to your view of what baggage is....these people who are self-aware and have little baggage should be in high demand....so we should snap them up when they're young, before someone else gets them.
People may disagree with me but that does not make them right. lol!

***

True enough - definitely high-demand - non-wrinkled, tight body, non-baggage carrying girls are definitely in high demand...but I kind of have a feeling they are the same ones that won't be looking for daddy in a boyfriend.

***

Sorry, JayJay! And you were so close. lol!

Last edited by LizziePooh; November 3rd, 2009 at 11:04 pm.
- November 3rd, 2009, 10:55 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#41   Reply With Quote
VB_Girl's Avatar

VB_Girl is not looking forward to 12" of snow!

Power Poster

Join Date: Feb 2009

Posts: 5,099

See profile

Seems like a lot of children these days have asthma or or a peanut allergy, is that baggage?

Everyone has a different definition of what it means to them, it's just a matter of finding the right level of baggage for you. I don't think going younger is the answer JayJay.
- November 3rd, 2009, 10:58 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#42   Reply With Quote
LizziePooh's Avatar

LizziePooh would enjoy a song.

Power Poster

Join Date: May 2008

Posts: 5,172

See profile

I walked in on my parents - I was 18. Talk about baggage!
- November 3rd, 2009, 11:03 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#43   Reply With Quote
jayjay's Avatar

jayjay ....is feeling optimistic.

Power Poster

Join Date: Jun 2008

Posts: 8,275

See profile

LizziePooh wrote :
People may disagree with me but that does not make them right. lol!
It's nice of you to allow the rest of us to be wrong.

LizziePooh wrote :
True enough - definitely high-demand - non wrinkled, tight body, non-baggage carrying girls are definitely in high demand...but I kind of have a feeling they are the same ones that won't be looking for daddy in a boyfriend.

Sorry, JayJay! And you were so close. lol!
Drats! I was afraid of that. lol. But I find those cute young Hispanic women you're going to fix me up with are more open to the idea. The triplet sister of the Latina I met last weekend is married to a man who is 6 months older than I am. Point: jayjay. lol
- November 3rd, 2009, 11:04 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#44   Reply With Quote
VB_Girl's Avatar

VB_Girl is not looking forward to 12" of snow!

Power Poster

Join Date: Feb 2009

Posts: 5,099

See profile

LizziePooh wrote :
I walked in on my parents - I was 18. Talk about baggage!
That requires serious therapy!
- November 3rd, 2009, 11:04 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#45   Reply With Quote

ADVERTISEMENT

jayjay's Avatar

jayjay ....is feeling optimistic.

Power Poster

Join Date: Jun 2008

Posts: 8,275

See profile

LizziePooh wrote :
I walked in on my parents - I was 18. Talk about baggage!
What happened to that self-awareness that is supposed to prevent you from having baggage?
- November 3rd, 2009, 11:06 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#46   Reply With Quote
Hew Hew is offline
Hew's Avatar

Newbie

Join Date: Nov 2009

Posts: 13

See profile

The key is to find someone with an overnight bag instead of a U-Haul.
- November 3rd, 2009, 11:07 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#47   Reply With Quote
LizziePooh's Avatar

LizziePooh would enjoy a song.

Power Poster

Join Date: May 2008

Posts: 5,172

See profile

jayjay wrote :
It's nice of you to allow the rest of us to be wrong.



Drats! I was afraid of that. lol. But I find those cute young Hispanic women you're going to fix me up with are more open to the idea. The triplet sister of the Latina I met last weekend is married to a man who is 6 months older than I am. Point: jayjay. lol
lol! I concede - one point for JayJay!! (See how gracious I am!)

I read about that trip (trips!). Does meeting the family and it being a friend's sister-in-law, make it a little more real - like could really go somewhere?? Fingers crossed for you.

Was she cute? I don't think I read what you thought of her...physically.
- November 3rd, 2009, 11:07 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#48   Reply With Quote
jayjay's Avatar

jayjay ....is feeling optimistic.

Power Poster

Join Date: Jun 2008

Posts: 8,275

See profile

VB_Girl wrote :
Everyone has a different definition of what it means to them, it's just a matter of finding the right level of baggage for you. I don't think going younger is the answer JayJay.
But maybe what each person's definition of baggage is relevant to finding the right kind of person. For some people an absence of baggage may = creamy young skin. lol
- November 3rd, 2009, 11:09 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#49   Reply With Quote
jayjay's Avatar

jayjay ....is feeling optimistic.

Power Poster

Join Date: Jun 2008

Posts: 8,275

See profile

Hew wrote :
The key is to find someone with an overnight bag instead of a U-Haul.
LOL....good one.
- November 3rd, 2009, 11:10 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#50   Reply With Quote

ADVERTISEMENT

Reply

Bookmarks

« How to dress hot! | Array | Asking out. »
Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts
BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is On
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On

Latest on our Dating Advice Discussion Boards

“The main conclusion I've drawn is that quality people are extremely rare on-line.” – Mickey275

Join the “What lessons have you learned from online dating?” discussion

“It's also been my experience that excessive flaking is a sign of excessive self-absorption. There's a reason why the person's unreliable: their agenda is more important than yours!” – Mickey275

Join the “Can Flaky People Make Good Partners?” discussion

“ Sorry, but I think that's just crazy, unless you're immortal and have 500 years to find a boyfriend. If you were seriously dating Mr Long Distance I would agree with you on this... but you haven't ... ” – mrflyer

Join the “Don't know what to make of this....please help.” discussion

“Reading these boards leads me to the conclusion that the primary problem with online dating is that it allows people way too much time to think, about way too much, and, generally speaking, they just ... ” – StuckOnYou

Join the “Too much thinking going on here...” discussion

“ Really, Gr8Guy? You'd really think that any woman who actually wants sex is promiscuous????? Sounds like a virgin/whore complex, honestly.” – superbeetle

Join the “Is there ever a misunderstanding???” discussion

“As someone who very recently ended my engagement to a man with a very dark past, which contains some of the things your fiancee has in her's - ie/ drug use and more), I am seeing red flags all over ... ” – lindseyk

Join the “Abusive relationship ?” discussion

“ So, what gives, Dating experts? Where am I going wrong? Please advise. It's not clear what actions you're talking, so it's really hard to answer. It doesn't matter how wonderful you are if you ... ” – mrflyer

Join the “Really need some advice” discussion



All times are GMT -7. The time now is 10:43 am.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.1
Copyright ©2000 - 2010, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Search Engine Friendly URLs by vBSEO 3.3.0