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Gr8Guyn2008 wrote :
Now 19 may be a bit young even for me but now mid 20s would work
That's understandable.....there are limits to how much each of us is willing to sacrifice in the name of a healthy relationship.
- November 3rd, 2009, 09:42 pm
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Seems from this OP and from other posts it is all about the definition of what baggage is. And it really comes down to if you are going to judge the present guy or girl for themselves or if you are going to judge them as if they are someone from your past.
- November 3rd, 2009, 09:43 pm
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I won't let you?? Are you kidding?? I am always keeping an eye out for a young, cute, little, hispanic girl just for you, my friend.
Oh my!
- November 3rd, 2009, 09:43 pm
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jayjay wrote :
That's understandable.....there are limits to how much each of us is willing to sacrifice in the name of a healthy relationship.
You of course have been around long enough on these boards to know that last year I did date a 24 year old
- November 3rd, 2009, 09:44 pm
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Gr8Guyn2008 wrote :
Seems from this OP and from other posts it is all about the definition of what baggage is. And it really comes down to if you are going to judge the present guy or girl for themselves or if you are going to judge them as if they are someone from your past.
So....a younger person has less of a possibility of even judging someone as if they were from their past, right? Because they have less of a past.
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jayjay wrote :
So....a younger person has less of a possibility of even judging someone as if they were from their past, right? Because they have less of a past.
No, because in your case, JayJay - they will be comparing you to "daddy". lol!!
- November 3rd, 2009, 09:46 pm
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I crack myself up!!
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I crack myself up!!
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A couple of times!! lol!!
- November 3rd, 2009, 09:50 pm
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LizziePooh wrote :
No, because in your case, JayJay - they will be comparing you to "daddy". lol!!
I have to admit....that's a good one.
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