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PY_2 wrote :
You didn't see the clause on page 11 point 3.b?

I have acknowledged that I have issues, now you just have to accept me for who I am! NO self improvement needed.

I missed that... thanks for pointing it out.
- November 5th, 2009, 09:08 am
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You'll get what's coming to you.
We've all gotta go sometime.
- November 5th, 2009, 10:28 am
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jayjay wrote :
Ok....let me try to think of one:

cougar-lish-ous.

Does that work?
No. It's got to be two thread related words that you put together to make one thread related word.

So Shhh (don't talk any more about) Height = a thread about total ShhHeight. See?

Fat (women's insecurities about body size and shape) U a$$ (the men who stir this pot) = Fatuous (inane and pointless debate)

See? It's really hard to do but strangely rewarding when you think of one.
- November 5th, 2009, 01:40 pm
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trixie1868 wrote :
No. It's got to be two thread related words that you put together to make one thread related word.

So Shhh (don't talk any more about) Height = a thread about total ShhHeight. See?

Fat (women's insecurities about body size and shape) U a$$ (the men who stir this pot) = Fatuous (inane and pointless debate)

See? It's really hard to do but strangely rewarding when you think of one.
I like this.
- November 5th, 2009, 01:50 pm
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I accumulated all of my baggage and made all of my mistakes by the time I was 23. I was the hardest to deal with between the ages of 18-26.

Once I dealt with my youthful missteps and 'baggage' well, that's when I became dateable, for real.

At 18 my 'baggage' and mis-steps were just waiting to be tapped.

By 27 I resemebled a mature adult that could contribute properly to relationships.
- November 5th, 2009, 02:37 pm
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trixie1868 wrote :
No. It's got to be two thread related words that you put together to make one thread related word.

So Shhh (don't talk any more about) Height = a thread about total ShhHeight. See?

Fat (women's insecurities about body size and shape) U a$$ (the men who stir this pot) = Fatuous (inane and pointless debate)

See? It's really hard to do but strangely rewarding when you think of one.
JayJay I think she just took you to school
- November 5th, 2009, 02:48 pm
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cp30 wrote :
I accumulated all of my baggage and made all of my mistakes by the time I was 23. I was the hardest to deal with between the ages of 18-26.

Once I dealt with my youthful missteps and 'baggage' well, that's when I became dateable, for real.

At 18 my 'baggage' and mis-steps were just waiting to be tapped.

By 27 I resemebled a mature adult that could contribute properly to relationships.
I agree with you that baggage can almost completely disappear.

When I reached a certain age I realized & understood exactly what went wrong in my past. It made sense. I don't believe that any action on my part would have led to a more successful outcome.

That understanding & release of any regret or possible fear was gone.

I don't think that I have experienced a great deal of unusual trauma so that may be why it wasn't that difficult to let go of any baggage.
- November 5th, 2009, 02:48 pm
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jayjay wrote :
if one wants to minimize the baggage a potential partner might have.....can the whole issue be avoided just by looking for younger partners who therefore have less baggage?

Yes.. preferably over 18 though.
- November 5th, 2009, 06:25 pm
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FruitaBu wrote :
Yes.. preferably over 18 though.
Welcome back
- November 5th, 2009, 06:50 pm
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FruitaBu wrote :
Yes.. preferably over 18 though.
In TX the legal age of consent is 17......NOT that I plan to take advantage of that fact.

P.S. Good to see you around again.
- November 5th, 2009, 07:01 pm
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