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So does this mean I should be dating this 18-year old who posted multiple comments on my profile because he's supposed to have very little or no baggage?
- November 4th, 2009, 08:20 pm
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EMTZ wrote :
So does this mean I should be dating this 18-year old who posted multiple comments on my profile because he's supposed to have very little or no baggage?
I think it's worth a try. Maybe that's what could be called 'right effort'.
- November 4th, 2009, 08:23 pm
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I think it's worth a try. Maybe that's what could be called 'right effort'.
You mean right effort for him to gain sexual experience from me?
- November 4th, 2009, 08:34 pm
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You mean right effort for him to gain sexual experience from me?
'Right effort' for you to find out what it's like....if it's worthwhile. Do you really have an 18 yo posting on your profile here? That's what you get for posting that photo.
- November 4th, 2009, 08:38 pm
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jayjay wrote :
'Right effort' for you to find out what it's like....if it's worthwhile. Do you really have an 18 yo posting on your profile here? That's what you get for posting that photo.
Hence my profile's "own words"
- November 4th, 2009, 08:41 pm
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I have met lots of people who are completely "self-aware" of all their issues. It doesn't mean they do a darn thing about them though!
You didn't see the clause on page 11 point 3.b?

I have acknowledged that I have issues, now you just have to accept me for who I am! NO self improvement needed.

- November 4th, 2009, 08:55 pm
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jayjay wrote :
like....omg....you are soooo my bff.
Awwww shucks....you make me blush...

(OTOH...it is truly scary that you understood everything I wrote. How young are these women you date?????..You are a renaissance man, aren't you!)...
- November 5th, 2009, 03:31 am
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EMTZ wrote :
Hence my profile's "own words"
I saw that.
- November 5th, 2009, 05:21 am
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jayjay wrote :
Actually....that's a pretty good example. When I hear most people talk about being self aware it kind of seems like what they're talking about is knowing they like blueberry poptarts more than (blech) fudge ones.
And why should I keep an open mind about fudge when I know blueberry is the one?

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- November 5th, 2009, 07:52 am
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nightling wrote :
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For example, I like blueberry poptarts and why should I switch to fudge or even strawberry? Blech, fudge. Strawberry. Disgusting.

Give me blueberry poptarts or give me death!

You'll get what's coming to you.
- November 5th, 2009, 08:04 am
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