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Bonzo huh ...
- November 3rd, 2009, 09:29 pm
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jayjay wrote :
Glad my real name isn't Luke.
LOL. Glad I didn't use HIS real name!
- November 3rd, 2009, 09:30 pm
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LOL. Glad I didn't use HIS real name!
Was it JJ??
- November 3rd, 2009, 09:31 pm
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matt1982 wrote :
Ha! Nope I don't mind, I've read some of these threads and I knew that this one was probably already on here somewhere, probably multiple times to. And I definitely know calling myself a nice guy doesn't mean I'm a nice guy, it could mean I'm just a deluded individual. It was just odd hearing it, usually it's just a hug and a "It's not going to work between us" and I usually agreed. Oh well, you live and you learn.
Yes, welcome, Matt.

So tell us...what'd you learn? (besides to not be a Luke).

And yes, I'm almost always this big a PITA.

Enjoy the boards.
- November 3rd, 2009, 09:35 pm
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I like Pita...quick and easy lunch. But I don't like Hummus!
- November 3rd, 2009, 09:36 pm
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Yes, welcome, Matt.

So tell us...what'd you learn? (besides to not be a Luke).

And yes, I'm almost always this big a PITA.

Enjoy the boards.

I learned that I'm happy my name isn't Luke and that I should probably do quick replies instead of the other option shown here. I've got another post floating around somewhere for this thread that I haven't seen yet
- November 3rd, 2009, 09:42 pm
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LizziePooh wrote :
Was it JJ??
Shhhhh.....
- November 3rd, 2009, 09:47 pm
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PY_2 wrote :
. But I don't like Hummus!
you are dead to me.

- November 3rd, 2009, 09:47 pm
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you are dead to me.

Picky woman.

- November 3rd, 2009, 09:54 pm
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matt1982 wrote :
So I'm new to this posting thing... Hi Everybody! And I have a general question that probably doesn't need asking but I'm kind of fed up at the moment.

So the question is Are there any women out there that like the good guys? I was raised old fashioned and it was ground into my skull that you should always treat a woman with respect, I'm starting to wonder though if this is what women really want. I was told just yesterday that I was "too nice," all I did was open the doors for her and walked her to her car. This will be the 3rd first date in as many weeks, 1 "too old fashioned", 1 "too nice" and the other didn't reply to my call. Maybe the women and I see respectful as two different things?

Any comments?
You have to be true to yourself and if thats what you value keep doing it. You will find a woman who appreciates it.

I personally appreciate this type of behavior and if a man doesnt do it then I'm not that into him.
- November 3rd, 2009, 11:41 pm
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