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LizziePooh wrote :
As for the three first dates not leading to second dates, I doubt that had anything to do with being a good guy. It probably is just more of the elusive chemistry thing that we all struggle with.
LOL Lizzie...the guy is confused enough....don't mention that "C" word yet, that's some heavy stuff for the veterans!

Newbies will get confused by that word...veterans will have fun with it and derail the thread with other more fun topics
- November 3rd, 2009, 09:02 pm
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Hi Matt,

Yeah...some welcome you got here...isn't it? Please forgive us...we have just hashed out the nice guy threads too many times around here.

As you can see from the responses and the experiences here...someone who has to claim they are a nice guy, usually isn't it. None of us know if you are that "nice guy" or not so please don't take our strong reaction personally...only you know if you fall in that category or not.

As for the three first dates not leading to second dates, I doubt that had anything to do with being a good guy. It probably is just more of the elusive chemistry thing that we all struggle with.

Good luck and welcome!


(And watch out for Peg when she sees this thread! lol! )
Ha! Nope I don't mind, I've read some of these threads and I knew that this one was probably already on here somewhere, probably multiple times to. And I definitely know calling myself a nice guy doesn't mean I'm a nice guy, it could mean I'm just a deluded individual. It was just odd hearing it, usually it's just a hug and a "It's not going to work between us" and I usually agreed. Oh well, you live and you learn.
- November 3rd, 2009, 09:06 pm
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That is the other topic that has been hashed out here too many times as well...how you say you are not interested in someone.

I am guilty of saying "you are a nice guy and all but...."

I think that is probably what you experienced and I think that is probably a typical answer from some girls.

And again, welcome!
- November 3rd, 2009, 09:14 pm
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matt1982 wrote :
usually it's just a hug and a "It's not going to work between us" and I usually agreed. Oh well, you live and you learn.
I think that's much better than "See ya sometime" but means "Just try to call me, thank god I have caller ID"

PLUS you still get a hug rather than getting sprayed with a mace (no that never happened to me btw)...so I don't think you're doing as bad as you think.
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LOL I have a feeling now "Don't be a Luke" will be an ehA-exclusive phrase just like 'she poofed on me' does.
Too funny!! Yes, I am going to be using that phrase from now on!
- November 3rd, 2009, 09:15 pm
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Too funny!! Yes, I am going to be using that phrase from now on!
Glad my real name isn't Luke.
- November 3rd, 2009, 09:17 pm
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Glad my real name isn't Luke.
What is it??

(btw thank goodness neither is mine)
- November 3rd, 2009, 09:24 pm
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DancingFool wrote :
To be really frank, I've never actually met a self proclaimed nice guy who actually was nice
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The way I see it: a truly nice guy will at least be humble enough not to claim that he is nice, but instead will realize that he has flaws, just like everyone else.
- November 3rd, 2009, 09:26 pm
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What is it??
Sir Bonzo Biggins.
- November 3rd, 2009, 09:27 pm
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Sir Bonzo Biggins.
Me too!

What a funny coincidence!
- November 3rd, 2009, 09:29 pm
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