chawks64 is offline chawks64 Post #11  November 2,2009, 8:09pm
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Looks like Dennis is the only one that thinks there's no hope...

Dennis, if she still is in contact with you, she can't think what you did was all that bad. Take a chance!
 
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I agree with everyone here. She is emailing you because she is thinking of you. Contact her. There are moments in your life where you have to be bold and this is one of them.
 
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+1. What's the worst that can happen? She doesn't respond back? At least you will be happier with yourself, that you tried. But since she's kept up occasional email, it seems likely she would respond. Sending you good wishes ...
 
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Shelby wrote :
Don't rule out your chances with her. What did you do - poof on her? This EH guy did this to me last fall. But I started getting spam from his e-mail address this summer; notified him and he wrote back, and we have ended up dating casually.

So don't write this off just yet. You say she still sends an e-mail now and then -- she might be testing the waters. E-mail her back to let her know you got her last e-mail and open up the lines of communication.

Who knows? Your prayers might be answered!
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Read the part in red above.

Seems that she is still thinking of you. When she sends an e-mail do you respond? Like the others have said you have nothing to lose and everything to gain, contact her.
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Looks like Dennis is the only one that thinks there's no hope...

Dennis, if she still is in contact with you, she can't think what you did was all that bad. Take a chance!
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+1. What's the worst that can happen? She doesn't respond back? At least you will be happier with yourself, that you tried. But since she's kept up occasional email, it seems likely she would respond. Sending you good wishes ...
She's saying c'mon dude, get with the program.
 
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Ok Dennis, Dennis. Listen Dennis. Call her up and talk and ask her out for Pizza or a burger or coffee. No big deal right? Then, report back here and we can talk about it.
And then we can all go and watch the Phillies play ball!
Go Phillies!
 
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Did you recently receive another mail from her and this is what has prompted your thread? If so - I agree with the others. She's thinking of you ... you could always write her back and suggest meeting up for coffee, lunch, dinner etc.
 
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You talked for a while and got her phone number but never actually dated, so what exactly did you blow if anything? She's still emailing you, she may not even realise you ran.
Dial that number and see where it goes.
 
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You may have "blew it" in your mind but she left a window of opportunity open for you....use it wisely
 
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let me chime in with the crowd. come on, dennis! what do you have to lose?
 
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notyet wrote :
let me chime in with the crowd. come on, dennis! what do you have to lose?
I think he's going all cowardly again. We may have to tackle him and force him to make the call.

Shall we do a rotating PM barrage until he gets it done?
 
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