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pds857 wrote :
Well, had a great party up until my guy got sick.
My mother was partyin with of course, an she was givin him shots.
Well, he can never tell her no, or that he's had enough an he'd only planned on a few beers.
Everything was goin great until then though. We danced and laughed
an sang to eachother an laughed an danced some more. (he can dance good btw)
We went to sit an we were talkin an he closed his eyes like he might move in for a kiss .... an thats when it happened. His eyes popped back open an he said he might get sick an then it was a rush to the trash can!
After he passed out in the chair, I went on to my bed.
Next day we hung out all day. I treated him to dinner. We watched a movie.
We said our good nights in person, then over the phone an crashed out unil monday mornin when it was time to work.
Over all it was a pretty good weekend.

I'm a lil confused with some things that were said las night though.
I'm not quite sure how to take em, in the context they were spoken in. I mean by them self it would be nice an sweet, but mixed with everything else we talked bout, its seems kinda ... I dont know. I guess thats why I'm confused. Oh well. I'll figure it out.
Good luck figuring it out. I had a conversation with my guy this weekend and I have no idea how to figure out what was said.
- November 3rd, 2009, 12:29 pm
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pds857 Dang! The weekend is flyin in at high speeds, get ready for it people! lol

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tjlpd wrote :
Good luck figuring it out. I had a conversation with my guy this weekend and I have no idea how to figure out what was said.
Why in the world cant Guys in general jus come on out an say what they are thinkin?
I hate bein in the dark. An I'm curious by nature. So when a guy that says somethin that I dont get I ask, an then when I get an even more
stumperliferious response I get frustrated.

So when a guys says oh I dont know somethin like, "Just wanted to say that you dont have to worry your not going to run me off, we're to close for that." An then calls ya somethin like sexy an hot an tells ya goodnight.
It leaves me thinkin a few things. .. .
1) Where the hecktate did that come from??
2) Does he mean that I'm tryin to run him off an its not gonna work? Or
3) Does he mean that I can say or do whatever without fear of running him off??

When ya thread that into the rest of the conversation everything jus gets more an more muddled. While that by its self isnt that bad, but still a lil confusing. I'm thinkin he didnt mean it in a bad way. But I dont get where it came from either ... From left field maybe?
Las night was like blowin hot then cold all in one convo.

So tjlpd, Good luck in your figurin, I feel ya pain on the mysteries of a man's mind.
- November 3rd, 2009, 03:38 pm
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No dates this weekend, though spent several hours on the phone with a lovely lady Friday, Saturday, and Sunday nights.
- November 3rd, 2009, 03:45 pm
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LOL DLion -- I am soooooooooo not motorcycle material. WAY too much of a fraidy cat here.... I'd be like this the whole time:



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Woo hoo, eHA meetups! Please post a link to your pics when they're ready.

And Mel.....how was the date portion of your get-away? Do tell, if you can!

sabete2002 wrote :
I can commiserate on replacing four tyres, Lori. I had to do it a couple of months back.

Great second date (or is it first date since the first one is considered a meet? Anyway, you know what I mean) on Saturday. Meeting him tomorrow for a hike and lunch. It's all good so far.

Looking forward to the Hotlanta pics!
Woo hoo on the good date and the one coming up....keep us posted. And sorry about the tires....double ouch! Well, at least we're riding on nice new tires now....that's something....lol....

GarrenSilverwing wrote :
I went on a date this weekend. I met her on eHarmony (we finished the guided communication 2 weeks ago and have been talking via email ever since). I drove to see her which is quite a distance but I do not mind. We went ice skating (which I am not very good at and I was quite literally stumbling through the conversation) which was a lot of fun. Then we went to a nearby lake and walked a lap and we attempted skipping rocks which was a complete failure (haha). Then we cuddled on the shore and watched the sun set and finished the date with a trip to a pretty bad italian restaraunt but we had fun making fun of the place! The date ended with a kiss so I really don't think it could have gone any better!
Woo HOO Garren!!!! Keep us posted on how things progress with your eH Match...keeping my fingers crossed

Mangosteen wrote :
I had a good meet up with the long-distance guy I've been conversing with... we don't really know what we're doing yet, but he met some of my friends and I got a best personal 5K time since I was in college (and a lot faster then).
Congrats on breaking your previous personal best! And on the good meetup with LDG...hope it continues to go well and in the direction you'd like for it too!
- November 3rd, 2009, 05:25 pm
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eHA_Admin_Lori wrote :
Woo HOO Garren!!!! Keep us posted on how things progress with your eH Match...keeping my fingers crossed
Thanks! I will keep you guys updated!
- November 3rd, 2009, 06:30 pm
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I went on my first Eharmony date ever and my first date in over a year on Sunday! It went great. We went to see Zombieland and went to dinner afterward. He called the next night! Saturday is date number 2. I'm really excited.
- November 3rd, 2009, 08:31 pm
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I'm running waaaaay late with my replies but I've not forgotten about you guys!

Gr8Guyn2008 wrote :
No date this past weekend. Friday I did go to dinner and then play cards with a group of friends.

Next Friday have date with a professor. Unfortunately she is too old, too tall and too far away. But I will go out with almost anyone at least once.
Maybe she'll surprise you! Sometimes people's chronological age is not at all indicative of how they live their lives. For example, old as I am, no one would think I was as immature as I am!

I hope you have fun no matter what!

chawks64 wrote :
No date.

Went to the Halloween party with all of the doctors, but there weren't any.

Got kissed, but that one is going nowhere. Tequila induced and way too young.
That sounds better than my most recent date went!

nightling wrote :
awww ...

Well if it makes you feel better, I watched a scary movie and wasn't kissed.
No kisses here either.

Shelby wrote :
Went on a first date with an artist that I met while buying one of his paintings. I invited myself to go to his home and see his work (all innocent -- I swear!) Beautiful home and garden, impressive art collection...

We went to lunch (I offered, but he paid...) I was charmed and impressed. Parted with a real hug (not a granny hug) and a kiss on the cheek!
NICE! That sounds very promising! Fingers crossed that things continue to go well....be sure to keep us posted, Shelby!

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I created an album on my profile if anyone cares to look (it's public).
I will definitely have a look as soon as I'm done with replies!
- November 4th, 2009, 03:27 pm
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No dates to report here, but I went to the bay area for a concert... completely a bummer. The music was good but I labored over my costume which no one commented on, and I'm pretty sure I stepped in someone's throw up barefooted at the venue (only barefooted because I was told there was seating for the show, and that we were taking a taxi instead of walking 2 miles so my shoes weren't comfortable enough!)

This coming weekend I'm sure I'll have better to report, I'm meeting an eH match in a romantic locale and couldn't be more stoked.
- November 4th, 2009, 03:34 pm
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So help me, if my long-distance match is agreeable, and a seat is available, I'm hopping a last-minute-weekend-flight to the West Coast... Not counting on that actually happening, however. But the thought is sustaining me, anyway.
- November 4th, 2009, 03:39 pm
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PY_2 wrote :
That is definitely one awesome word!!!!

p.s. cuute picture btw!
Thanks! I was not a happy baby in that pic though. I'm told I REALLY didn't want to leave the park when it was time to go home that day.

Mr_Right wrote :
Spent the weekend relaxing with my fiance. It was very nice.
Yay for relaxing weekends!

clearlyoblique wrote :
Rear End: in a car context, not a good thing to do to a friend. *CO hangs head in shame*

Also, met with some nice folks for brunch and had another eH date.
Rut roh re: the accident -- were you um, in front or behind on that scenario? I recently rear-ended someone on the freeway but the damage was so tiny (scratches to her bumper that you literally had to put your face RIGHT UP TO to see) that we just drove our separate ways and that was it. I was nervous though -- her car was really new!

Yay for brunch -- and how was this eH date???

shoopthedoop wrote :
Had dinner with a woman on Friday. Not sure if it was as friends or an actual date. It was good times and she's pretty cool. Seeing her next weekend in a group setting.

Made it to OC with four eH matches all within a couple days. Now scheduling will be the issue.

Got a call on Sunday night for a job interview. The timing was odd, but the guy I spoke to sounded pretty cool and it's an interesting job.

FInally heard back from my ex and am getting my stuff back soon.

Saw my nephew's football team win the city semi-finals.

All things considered, it was a great weekend!
That DOES sound like a great weekend! WOO HOO! Keep us posted on how things progress with date/friend lady, the job and of course your eH matches

CaptCrunch23 wrote :
Nothing to report on my weekend. My leaves are all picked up though! Backpack blower was a great investment!
Nice! A no-nonsense approach to yardwork. I hope the trees don't dump anymore leaves on your yard but if they do -- you're well equipped! lol
- November 4th, 2009, 03:46 pm
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