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People always talk about why someone else is a good/bad catch.
Well, what makes YOU a good/bad catch?

Being completely honest, I put together my self critique:
Keep in mind some of these may not be considered bad/good by others-this is MY opinion of MYSELF (before I get a bunch of people disagreeing)

I'm a good catch 'cuz:
I’m easy to get along with
I talk things outfficeffice" />>>
I have a crazy sense of humor >>
I still climb trees>>
I am generous with whatever I have>>
Kids and dogs love me>>
I’m honest
I'm awesome in bed>>
I don’t care what color you are>>
I’m a writer and producer so I’m creative—Everywhere>>
I still LOVE ffice:smarttags" />lace w:st="on">Disneylandlace>>>
I hate shopping>>
I’m not material>>
I wear a thong>>
I don’t wear jewelry>>
I don’t care about money>>
I love Zombie movies/ Hate Romance Movies>>
The only bug that scares me are spiders>>
I hate wearing heels and dressing up but look HAWT when I do>>
I don’t want/need you to call me every day>>
I look younger than I am>>
I’d rather go to Disney World than lace w:st="on">Parislace>>>
Warn Weather makes me uncontrollably randy (I seem to leave a trail of pheromones in the spring and summer months)>>
>>
>I'm a bad catch "cuz: >
I can’t cook (well, I can- a little but I hate to)>>
I’m stubborn (Taurus here)>>
I don’t take things at face value>>
I am stingy with my heart>>
I am impatient>>
I won’t ask for help>>
I don’t care about money>>
I need my independence>>
I don’t like to dress up>>
I LOVE to debate >>
I can (and do) quote every Star Wars Movie>>
I can’t sew on a button>>
I act younger than I am>>
I’d rather go to Disney World than lace w:st="on">Parislace>>>
Cold Weather makes me frigid (Rather watch “The Golden Girls” in a blanket and Granny Panties in the Fall and Winter months)>>
My nails are different lengths most of the time>>
I play rough (9 years kung fu)>>
Yes, I will fart on you>>
I just started separating the white and colors
I don't like being cooped up in the house-I like to get out
I don't want/need you to call me everyday
I will hang up the phone on you
I don't wait for proof-I will dump you on a suspicion
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- November 2nd, 2009, 12:43 pm
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I am a delightful shade of green which can make any Lady swoon.

I have the finest array of warts you've ever seen.

And ... um ... something else ...
- November 2nd, 2009, 03:27 pm
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Oh, right ... NOT SCARED OF SPIDERS!
- November 2nd, 2009, 03:27 pm
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I'm a good catch - and that's it.
- November 2nd, 2009, 03:46 pm
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"I still climb trees" ... big deal, you're only in your 30s. I still climb trees too ... much more impressive!
- November 2nd, 2009, 03:48 pm
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Good:

I'm smart...well I have a smart mouth, at least.
I can sew on my own buttons.
I can cook, even though I don't do it much.
I eat anything, and like 99% of it.
I'm honest.
Kids and dogs and cats and horses love me.
I write good poetry.
I can fix cars and computers and electrical circuits.
I have brilliant blue eyes.
I'm not a neat freak.
Umm... I don't think about myself often enough to come up with any more.

Maybe?:

I'm not loud and obnoxious - sometimes even when I should be?
I'd rather stay home and read a book than go out, any time.
I'm not much of a partier.
I'm honest.
I'm not a neat freak.

Bad:

I'm stubborn.
I'm sarcastic.
I have a hard time being patient with dumb people.
I can't dance.
I'm short, balding, and have crooked teeth.
I hate talking on the phone.
I'm honest.
I write bad poetry.
I like all food, so I honestly can't tell you whether specific food is good or bad.
I have no taste in clothes, and I won't pretend to just because you asked me.
I'm not a neat freak.
Umm... I don't think about myself often enough to come up with any more.
- November 2nd, 2009, 03:49 pm
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Speaking of bad catch, I caught a cold last week.
- November 2nd, 2009, 04:54 pm
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I'm a monkey. I'm notoriously hard to catch. I won't fall for that banana trick again, either.
- November 2nd, 2009, 05:56 pm
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I won't fall for that banana trick again, either.
yes you will
- November 2nd, 2009, 10:23 pm
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i'll give you a banana if i can have my hat back.

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- November 2nd, 2009, 10:36 pm
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