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lol i helped hijacked the thread without even trying.
- November 2nd, 2009, 12:34 pm
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Last edited by PY_2; November 2nd, 2009 at 12:38 pm. Reason: Sorry i couldn't resist lol
- November 2nd, 2009, 12:35 pm
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- November 2nd, 2009, 12:49 pm
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Well, let me just clarify that when the woman requested communication and I saw her picture, it was like she is cute but not someone that made my heart skip a beat. I though maybe in person she would be very sensual or we would really hit it off and maybe have some type of relationship.

She wore a plunging blousing and about a third of her right breast was exposed. I only glanced a couple of times when she looked the other way. She never made an attempt to cover herself up. Just kind of an interesting side note. She is a country girl and had never been to a Starbucks. Just moved to the big city a month ago...abusive husband wanted to get away.

My comment about being charming wasn't meant as going overboard, just being laid back and smiling, not looking at my watch or other women who walked by.

My ego is not CRUSHED, it's just more from a clinical curiosity as to how women arrive at decisions and I was surprised. I do understand the chemical thing.

BTW, I tried out a cologne that contained real pheromones that I got from a website where guys are obsessed with the effect different mixtures have on women. I'll save that for a separate post. I've wore it on non-dates a couple of times and the results on women were bizarre both ways.

I knew things didn't go well because as we all know, when it does the goodnight exchange at the woman's car goes on to the point we have to tear each other apart.
- November 2nd, 2009, 02:10 pm
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She wore a plunging blousing and about a third of her right breast was exposed. I only glanced a couple of times when she looked the other way. She never made an attempt to cover herself up.

That was probably due to your cologne!!!

BTW, I tried out a cologne that contained real pheromones that I got from a website where guys are obsessed with the effect different mixtures have on women. I've wore it on non-dates a couple of times and the results on women were bizarre both ways.

Does it have The Pied Piper effect?
- November 2nd, 2009, 02:26 pm
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Again, you clearly weren't interested in her but seem perplexed as to why she wasn't interested in you. Really, nobody here can give you the answer. Only she can do that.
- November 2nd, 2009, 02:27 pm
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Skyking6976 wrote :
I thought ... this would be good for my ego.
How thoughtless of her to abstain from being your narcisstic supply. Crazy woman. What was she thinking?
- November 2nd, 2009, 02:31 pm
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How thoughtless of her to abstain from being your narcisstic supply. Crazy woman. What was she thinking?
No kidding, what was she thinking? Women can be so selfish! ha ha ha
- November 2nd, 2009, 02:54 pm
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I'm confused here myself!
I mean what self respectin over weight country gal would not hop to if some egotisical, tool glanced her way??
What was she thinkin, by Not bein desperate an lonly an not lowering her standards jus for you? Can you imagine?

I mean you for went your 'SOP' jus to take her to a Starbucks! Wasnt that jus grand for you? Thinkin that she'd be some cheap 'date' so you wanna make sure by wearin some cheap stanky product made specifically to get you into her 'good graces' so to speak.

I mean you seem like shuch a Grand fella an all. It had to be all
her, an she has to jus be crazy for not 'jumpin right on that one!'
She'll look back some day I'm sure an think to her self, "what was I thinkin on that one?"

In my over wieght country gal opinion, I'm glad that she was smart enough to not settle for someone that jus didnt, "Ring her Bell".
Sorry, but you didnt feel anything for her sides a very Slight atraction right up till you seen her in person, an then thought she was aweful.
Then while thinkin that your so much better than her, ya kiss her, an then get all ticked when she's not diggin ya? An you really wanna blame her for your 'brused ego'?

In my opinion ya set yaself up for failure by thinkin that jus cuz she may be unatractive in your eyes that she's jus as unatractive in every other male's eyes as well. Which jus aint so, look at these boards, or if you can, in real life, an see many a different type of couple out there. The pretty an ugly, the skinny with big, an all the in betweens.

Every one's tastes differ, so what reason did you have to believe that she'd be putty in your hand jus because ya went outta your way to take her to starbucks. You shoulda stuck with your SOP. Then ya mighta got somewhere. Oh an I'm thinkin that, maybe she said starbucks cause she wasnt that into you from the get go, there is this crazy country song you should listen to, its called "Girls lie too"
Its pretty good actually.

Best of luck to ya in your future searches for Ms.Right.
- November 2nd, 2009, 03:51 pm
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Skyking6976 wrote :
Text messaged her to make sure she got home okay and she did. No communication the next day so I sent her a text in the afternoon. She wrote back and again said she had a nice visit. Nothing else the rest of the day so I closed her out for no chemistry last night.
The other posters already commented on some stuff that needed to be said but I have a question for you...

Did you expect her (or any woman) to text you every day when you have only gone on one date? Removing the arrogant part where she should have been thrilled that you showed interest - what did you expect her to do? Start texting regularly?

I would have responded to a guy's text (well - I don't text so I probably would have called or sent an email) but I would not be texting someone every day that I have only been on one date with.

This was a very confusing post on many levels. lol!
- November 2nd, 2009, 05:16 pm
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