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gothustartus is offline gothustartus Post #21  November 1,2009, 12:00pm
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trixie1868 wrote :
Virgin = holy grail of women.

Really? Why?

Think I'd regard it as a burdonsome responsibility but would genuinely like to know what men think.
A virgin has nothing to judge by, so a bloke can be a rubbish 30 second man and he'll still be the best she's ever had.
 
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LizziePooh wrote :
I really liked this post. And I do think the only way you are going to know is if you ask him.
It always strikes me that more relationships end, or perhaps don't even start, because of entrenched assumptions.
 
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Don't jump to the conclusion that he's using you because he suggested dating. He wouldn't bring up dating unless he likes you. Go on a few dates with him and find out what his "real intentions" are. If you don't like his "real intentions" you can always tell him you're not interested in dating anymore.

Nancy, from what she says this is not a guy whose afraid of asking a woman out. There's no reason to be coy an dsay we'll be dating soon as if you're fishing to know if she's interested. If he was truly interested he'd say can I pick you up Friday for dinner?

It's one of those statements that holds out the possibility of something without actually being that something. I think he's probably playing her.

But the only way to know for sure is to date him. So I'd call his bluff if I liked him.
 
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