Chucho is offline Chucho Post #1  October 31,2009, 2:53pm
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Let me tell you what's up. About to go on my first eH date, she seems very focused and nice looking photos in her profile, yet what I found today is that she took off her the photos from it. I'm now getting a bit concerned. Sounds odd. Maybe she is doing it for whatever reason, but wanted to have another look today and zap! They were gone.

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Laughingdaily is offline Laughingdaily Post #2  October 31,2009, 3:22pm
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When is your meeting/date?
 
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Chucho is offline Chucho Post #3  October 31,2009, 3:25pm
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I would be a bit concerned. I would ask her why she took them off.
 
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Have you talked on the phone with this mystery woman? If so what is your "gut" telling you??

Any red flags that may have been overlooked?
 
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NOT a good sign.

You may have been hoodwinked with older/thinner photos, and now she feels guilty and/or is removing the evidence from the scene.

Then again..maybe she got matched with somebody she knows in RL, and is hiding her identity.

Good luck.
 
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Did things kind of fall together too fast maybe? Was she quick to move up to a meeting?
The list goes on??????
 
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Chucho is offline Chucho Post #8  October 31,2009, 3:45pm
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Laughingdaily wrote :
Have you talked on the phone with this mystery woman? If so what is your "gut" telling you??

Any red flags that may have been overlooked?
Nope, no phone chat, but I will go through all communication to see if there are any red flags. Certainly I can ask wassup but likely the outcome is that the same photos would come up, even if fake. I'm having a bit of a strange feeling on this. She seemed a bit too eager to start direct contact after she nudged me for my photos. Maybe that's one red flag.
 
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I think I would meet her.

Some people are afraid to put photos on an online dating site, so, right or wring, I would give her a chance.
 
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D_Lion wrote :
I think I would meet her.

Some people are afraid to put photos on an online dating site, so, right or wring, I would give her a chance.
Understand your point, but problem here is that her photos were up in the first place. She has now taken them off. So I think that logic does not quite apply.
 
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