Rainfallgirl is offline Rainfallgirl Post #41  October 31,2009, 6:18pm
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She may be like me and not want to be in contact with any other potential matches once she has a date with you I think everybody is reading way to much into this. She might even feel self-conscious... that the photo's she posted earlier make her look fat or something (according to her.) I would ask her if you are curious but just relax and see how she is in person on Monday.
 
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brneyedangel is offline brneyedangel Post #42  October 31,2009, 6:20pm
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*peeking in*

I just want to take a second to remind everyone about the Community Standards here. If you are new and are not familiar with them, here is a link to them:

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Please avoid personal attacks and consider your impact before making a contribution. This isn't a platform for arguing or driving personal points or issues home. Also remember that the ignore option is available if you wish to completely block another person's posts!

Soooooo...can we avoid closing the thread and please get back to the OP's original post? Thanks!
 
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Chucho is offline Chucho Post #43  October 31,2009, 6:21pm
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brneyedangel wrote :
*peeking in*

I just want to take a second to remind everyone about the Community Standards here. If you are new and are not familiar with them, here is a link to them:

Community Guidelines for eHarmony Advice

Please avoid personal attacks and consider your impact before making a contribution. This isn't a platform for arguing or driving personal points or issues home. Also remember that the ignore option is available if you wish to completely block another person's posts!

Soooooo...can we avoid closing the thread and please get back to the OP's original post? Thanks!
Thanks for this
 
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Chucho is offline Chucho Post #44  October 31,2009, 6:23pm
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Rainfallgirl wrote :
She may be like me and not want to be in contact with any other potential matches once she has a date with you I think everybody is reading way to much into this. She might even feel self-conscious... that the photo's she posted earlier make her look fat or something (according to her.) I would ask her if you are curious but just relax and see how she is in person on Monday.
Thanks, reassuring. Above which city/sea/continent you're now..? Just curious.
 
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brneyedangel is offline brneyedangel Post #45  October 31,2009, 6:24pm
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Thanks for this
My pleasure.
 
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nightling is offline nightling Post #46  October 31,2009, 6:28pm
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brneyedangel wrote :
My pleasure.
I have also reported Sweetest to the Eharmony Authorities. FWIW.
 
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Can_I_just_be_Jo is offline Can_I_just_be_Jo Post #47  October 31,2009, 6:29pm

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My pleasure.
Thank you as well. Sorry if I got a bit over the top but I don't understand why people behave in such a manner.
 
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Gr8Guyn2008 is offline Gr8Guyn2008 Post #48  October 31,2009, 6:34pm
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It depends on the answer to this question:

Has her eHarmony subscription expired?

If yes, then no problems as I have found many people will remove their photos from their profile when their subscription expires.

If no, then I suspect that she is not going to look at all like the photos that she had posted. Given my level of curiosity I would probably still go to the meeting.

I have a date scheduled with an eHarmony match that has two Glamor Shot photos posted that are date stamped on the photo 2004. So who knows what she looks like today. But since she recently ran a 5K in the Florida heat I figure that she isn't going to be a 2 ton Tessie.
 
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Can_I_just_be_Jo is offline Can_I_just_be_Jo Post #49  October 31,2009, 6:39pm

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Gr8Guyn2008 wrote :
It depends on the answer to this question:

Has her eHarmony subscription expired?

If yes, then no problems as I have found many people will remove their photos from their profile when their subscription expires.

If no, then I suspect that she is not going to look at all like the photos that she had posted. Given my level of curiosity I would probably still go to the meeting.

I have a date scheduled with an eHarmony match that has two Glamor Shot photos posted that are date stamped on the photo 2004. So who knows what she looks like today. But since she recently ran a 5K in the Florida heat I figure that she isn't going to be a 2 ton Tessie.
I wana hate you but I can't. Maybe we both got off on the wrong foot. Sorry bout that.

Hi, my name is Jo and I would never go to Glamor Shots. I think I may be living proof of the failings of the internet. You don't get to know the person before you are slammed in the face with, well, the person. Really, sorry if there was a wrong foot.
 
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Chucho wrote :
Neither do I but that does not stop the whole thing being odd.
maybe she got matched with someone from her job or something.

what's the big deal? go meet her and if she's repulsive just say you aren't into her and move on.
 
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