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Sweetest wrote :
The same thing happen to me, and found she was from Africa. What I did was I gave her my personal email address, and ask her for her photo and run her IP address through a special system I have. Remember if it sounds to good to be true, it usually is!

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How would you do that..? By looking at the headers in the e-mail..?
- October 31st, 2009, 07:34 pm
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Neither do I but that does not stop the whole thing being odd.
The point is absent of anything bad it tends to be something innocent. You would be amazed the things I have done because i had no idea it would send up a red flag to someone.
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Love at first sight? Can't always go by the pictures! Remember too many scam artists out there on the internet.
- October 31st, 2009, 07:39 pm
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Sweetest wrote :
The same thing happen to me, and found she was from Africa. What I did was I gave her my personal email address, and ask her for her photo and run her IP address through a special system I have. Remember if it sounds to good to be true, it usually is!

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Ah ha oh sorry, you have no way to find my IP address. What you will get is my routers IP address. It will tell you I am where ever my ISP is located. I have friends that will disguise things intentionally, only the government using subpoenas can find out who they are. Why are you scaring the poor guy.
- October 31st, 2009, 07:40 pm
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How would you do that..? By looking at the headers in the e-mail..?
Did an IP Trace (call me paranoic now..!) and the location is from where I expect it to be. No issues on this front.
- October 31st, 2009, 07:43 pm
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Maybe she a cross dresser!
- October 31st, 2009, 07:46 pm
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a good reason to take the photos down might be to slow down other matches? I dunno, it's a puzzler. Why not just ask her and see what she says?
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a good reason to take the photos down might be to slow down other matches? I dunno, it's a puzzler. Why not just ask her and see what she says?
Silly!

Seriously, though. To the OP, why don't you ask?

It's the only way you're really going to find out.
- October 31st, 2009, 07:49 pm
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Why don't you just ask her. Don't beat around the bush about it!
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a good reason to take the photos down might be to slow down other matches? I dunno, it's a puzzler. Why not just ask her and see what she says?
Asking outright is the only logical option I think at this stage. But unless she throws some bizarre excuse I assume it would be a bit difficult to slice truth fom faking. So maybe I will need to bite the dust of a meet. If it does not turn up as expected, I can walk out within 5 minutes.
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