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D_Lion wrote :
You been at the gym for four hours?!
no ... two hours.... then spent money I didn't need to spend on neat stuff at the home hardware store..... but I digress.......

What is your secret announcement???????????
- October 31st, 2009, 02:25 pm
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I delved into psych. I'm not a psychologist, but I worked in treatment for years, working with teens and social workers and others. That's where I learned we ALL have baggage. Some people are aware of their baggage and some aren't.
Here is your problem with that idea. Baggage as defined and relevant to this topic is intangible things that get in the way. If you are aware of what one may consider baggage and do not allow it to change your decision it does not get in the way. If it does not get in the way it no longer fits the definition of baggage. Plus awareness also make it tangible as you can define it, set properties to it, etc.
- October 31st, 2009, 02:35 pm
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Are you still waiting for the Special Announcement?
- October 31st, 2009, 02:45 pm
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D_Lion wrote :
Are you still waiting for the Special Announcement?
Nope. Gave up. Went to rumba/cha-cha class. Got a life instead.
- October 31st, 2009, 02:51 pm
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D_Lion wrote :
Are you still waiting for the Special Announcement?
this must be your baggage.... you are enjoying tormenting people.....
- October 31st, 2009, 02:54 pm
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I know he's in a relationship but i'd like to know with whom?...Although I think I have an idea.
- October 31st, 2009, 03:48 pm
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I don't have the slightest clue.

I feel so Blonde.
- October 31st, 2009, 03:53 pm
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D_Lion wrote :
Might be right about that ... but the Ladies are waiting for the real thing.
You mean your very real delusion that we care what our announcement is?
- October 31st, 2009, 04:04 pm
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I see the Pegasus is still waiting ... hoping ... longingly ... for the Special Announcement.
- October 31st, 2009, 04:05 pm
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winn wrote :
I know he's in a relationship but i'd like to know with whom?...Although I think I have an idea.
It's not with me.
- October 31st, 2009, 04:39 pm
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