I had this happen several months ago... I had initially met this guy over a year ago but his occupation caused him to travel so we had a fantastic time with all this great chemistry the first night. met up a second time and had really good conversation, but then his job sent him away for several months... I met someone new and when he returned didn't have the same feelings. That didn't last and recently we went on a date to see if there was anything there. Had a great time, great conversation, and I thought... wow, maybe there really is something there and was excited and interested again... but it quickly faded unfortunately. I didn't meet anyone else in the meantime. I'm not sure what happened to be honest. I really really really wanted to like him becuase I am to the point in my life where I could fall in love and be in a committed relationship. He's completely attractive, like really really handsome, responsible, mature, generous and fun. We even talked about some pretty personal things about our families and past relationships and it was comfortable. I should be head over heels, right? But for whatever reason, that thing that causes you to go out of your way to see someone wasn't there for me anymore... no matter how much I wanted it to be there. love is a funny thing. i have been in love exactly twice and both times have been completely spontaneous and unexpected... where neither party was looking to start a new relationship. i think something about this lets people relax and just be themselves and able to enjoy the relationship and each other exactly for what it is and who they are.

my advice... talk to him... tell him that you like so many qualities about him (list them... handsome, fun, kind, funny, etc) but for some reason just aren't feeling that extra motivation you had hoped to feel by now. keepin it real is usually the best way to go. Good luck!