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Benevolence32 is offline Benevolence32 Post #1  October 26,2009, 2:53pm
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What's that mean exactly when a woman says that? Does that mean she wouldn't even want to hold hands in public or does that mean more intimate things like big long kisses in public?
 
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It's code for she's just not that into you.
 
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How about just asking her what she means by it? (crazy idea, I know )
 
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tweet37 wrote :
It's code for she's just not that into you.
funny, but unoriginal But anyways it was something a woman said in one of her GC answers on EH, just debating whether to close her or not since I don't do cold fish.
 
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Benevolence32 wrote :
funny, but unoriginal But anyways it was something a woman said in one of her GC answers on EH.
Then maybe she's technically challenged and doesn't like PDA's (Personal Digital Assistant aka Crackberry).
 
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I am not a big fan of PDA. I love hand-holding. Hugs and small kisses in public are okay to. Yes, I know these are signs of affection, but people also use the term PDA to refer to times when people look like they are trying to swallow each other's faces or merge into one body, or are groping each other in public. That's way too much for me...but perhaps your match doesn't even go for the hand holding. Who knows unless you ask her to explain it.
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I can't stand PDA either especially those with their iPods and stuff

Seriously though- hand holding and putting arm around shoulder and stuff is definitely ok in my book...especially when you have a nice walk in the park. I just don't like the extreme ones like super sweet smooching, or playing 'guess this body part' game, etc. But reasonable PDA is fine with me.
 
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Yeah I guess I'll just try to get to OC with her since it's hard to say. I've just never been told that before in RL or online so it sort struck me. Just wondered what people thought from their perspective.
 
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Benevolence32 wrote :
Yeah I guess I'll just try to get to OC with her since it's hard to say. I've just never been told that before in RL or online so it sort struck me. Just wondered what people thought from their perspective.
my version may be rather tainted, in my case, the x didn't go for pda. Upon later analysis, I realised this was due to who we may run into, and he wanted to keep his options open.
 
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i doubt it's a big deal- she's probably just not into extended tongue wrestling sessions at the bar.
 
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