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Does he have a farm?
I doubt it.
 
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You do know you are obligated to disclose full details here after your excursion right??
i didn't see that in my contract.
 
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doesn't anyone want to know how tall he is?
 
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tweet37 is offline tweet37 Post #84  October 26,2009, 3:12pm
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doesn't anyone want to know how tall he is?
No, height doesn't matter...does it??
 
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I have to admit to seeming inconsistent on this issue.

I think that when dealing with a business, you, a consumer, are interacting with an enterprise whose sophisticated practices were developed by individuals with the sole aim of maximizing profits. It is essentially impossible for you to negotiate the terms of consumer “contracts of adhesion.” Since it would not hesitate to impose on you all the “gotcha” clauses, you owe it to fairness to do the same.

When dealing with the (putative) player, you are dealing with another individual, with whom you can negotiate and interact on a level playing field. You don’t know if someone is a “player,” a guy with little experience, or some poor bloke who read some “pick-up lines” off the internet. No matter who he is, though, you can interact with him from an inherently fair position.

My view on this is colored by my premise that these “players” are not in fact nearly so common as their mythological standing indicates.
 
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I know! and it's really thanks to this thread that i decided to do it.
You da WOMAN!!!
 
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No, height doesn't matter...does it??
*I* only date men over 6 foot, because i wear heels.

j/k. he's maybe 5'9" at the most.
 
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D_Lion wrote :
I have to admit to seeming inconsistent on this issue.

I think that when dealing with a business, you, a consumer, are interacting with an enterprise whose sophisticated practices were developed by individuals with the sole aim of maximizing profits. It is essentially impossible for you to negotiate the terms of consumer “contracts of adhesion.” Since it would not hesitate to impose on you all the “gotcha” clauses, you owe it to fairness to do the same.

When dealing with the (putative) player, you are dealing with another individual, with whom you can negotiate and interact on a level playing field. You don’t know if someone is a “player,” a guy with little experience, or some poor bloke who read some “pick-up lines” off the internet. No matter who he is, though, you can interact with him from an inherently fair position.

My view on this is colored by my premise that these “players” are not in fact nearly so common as their mythological standing indicates.
So you admit that you're busted...
 
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he's really cute. he must be at least partially Latino because he speaks very fluent spanish.

Latino men are hawt.
 
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scarlet13 wrote :
maybe we should just dine and dash. that way the who pays issue will be moot.
I believe the expression is the issue will be moo.... as in who cares what a cow thinks. (Joey.T.).
 
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