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scarlet13 wrote :
UPDATE:

I'm going out for drinks this weekend with my mechanic.

You do know you are obligated to disclose full details here after your excursion right??
- October 26th, 2009, 03:43 pm
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Can_I_just_be_Jo wrote :
I am nice to the repair guys because it gets me a lower bill. They lower my bill because my behavior is what they want. Is there really a victim?

Yes, but defuse and diverse.

The “victim” is the concept that women are manipulative; which will not come back to you specifically, but becomes part of the mental model these men have toward women.

Concordantly, they see women as manipulative and conniving. As dating partners or employees, they are not fit to be trusted and not fit for a decision-making role.

I understand the rationale of taking what you can get, when you can get it, from life …
- October 26th, 2009, 03:43 pm
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Did I miss any important rules?
Is his weight acceptable?

Is he carrying any baggage?

- October 26th, 2009, 03:44 pm
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scarlet13 wrote :
UPDATE:

I'm going out for drinks this weekend with my mechanic.
Seriously? That's fabulous.
- October 26th, 2009, 03:47 pm
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D_Lion wrote :
I understand the rationale of taking what you can get, when you can get it, from life …
Then why did you disapprove of Scarlet and me for poncing drinks off of players? Hmmmmmmm?
- October 26th, 2009, 03:51 pm
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scarlet13 wrote :
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I'm going out for drinks this weekend with my mechanic.
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Nice!

Did you discuss who pays?
Does he own a cow?
No texting!
Use only the salad fork while eating?
Don't drink any drinks with more than six ice cubes!
If your not interested . just give him the "Fonzi" thumbs ups when exiting the bar!
Did I miss any important rules?

Add: btw since you're a group admin now..You have to be home by eleven to start a thread on it! lol
Does he have a farm?
- October 26th, 2009, 03:54 pm
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D_Lion wrote :
Yes, but defuse and diverse.

The “victim” is the concept that women are manipulative; which will not come back to you specifically, but becomes part of the mental model these men have toward women.

Concordantly, they see women as manipulative and conniving. As dating partners or employees, they are not fit to be trusted and not fit for a decision-making role.

I understand the rationale of taking what you can get, when you can get it, from life …
So I should have kept this a secret? Does this mean that honesty isn't good?
- October 26th, 2009, 04:01 pm
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CaptCrunch23 wrote :
Nice!
Did you discuss who pays?
no I went in to pick up the car and (with my friend Mary trying to peek at him inconspicuously through the glass and failing miserably) and i said so what did i do to deserve these special discounts and he said i am nice and very cute and i said thank you would you like to go out for a drink sometime and he said yes and laughed and said he wanted to ask me out the last time i was in but chickened out

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Does he own a cow?
probably not

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No texting!
ok

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Use only the salad fork while eating?
ok
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Don't drink any drinks with more than six ice cubes!
heck no. waters down the alcohol.

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If your not interested . just give him the "Fonzi" thumbs ups when exiting the bar!
I always do! or is that when the are leaving the bedroom? I forget.

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Did I miss any important rules?
if i kiss him goodnight does that make me easy?

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Add: btw since you're a group admin now..You have to be home by eleven to start a thread on it! lol
bah- i don't leave the house til 11. D_Lion will have to babysit you freaks that night.
- October 26th, 2009, 04:06 pm
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Mokkesofie wrote :
Is his weight acceptable?

Is he carrying any baggage?
yeah- he's not too skinny and not to husky.

I don't know about baggage. (yet) my luck he's probably got 5 kids
- October 26th, 2009, 04:08 pm
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trixie1868 wrote :
Seriously? That's fabulous.
I know! and it's really thanks to this thread that i decided to do it.
- October 26th, 2009, 04:09 pm
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