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Some guys are dumb. Might as well enjoy it.

Nobody is forcing them to do it.
That is the polar opposite of your response when I said I fleece players in bars for drinks!

Jo you must be one hell of a flirt, I have a go (not for a discount but because its a man in my house and its good practise) but I never got a discount.

MOREOVER, I never got the frog to endorse my self serving behaviour .......... yet.


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People do marry cable guys, mechanics, plumbers. Some women must be flirting with them just cos they're alright and they like 'em. Go Scarlet.
- October 26th, 2009, 12:09 pm
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That is the polar opposite of your response when I said I fleece players in bars for drinks!
I know! I remember that.

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People do marry cable guys, mechanics, plumbers. Some women must be flirting with them just cos they're alright and they like 'em. Go Scarlet.
I can't wait for my car to be done.
- October 26th, 2009, 12:16 pm
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I hope he's not married.
- October 26th, 2009, 12:18 pm
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scarlet13 wrote :
I hope he's not married.
Interesting comment Scarlet. Have you found that people assume that because you flirt you would go after a married man?
- October 26th, 2009, 12:27 pm
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I am not so sure I would reduce the bill on work for a lady unless I was sleeping with her, but that is just me.
- October 26th, 2009, 12:32 pm
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Interesting comment Scarlet. Have you found that people assume that because you flirt you would go after a married man?
Huh?

I wouldn't know. I don't pay attention to what other people think.
- October 26th, 2009, 12:35 pm
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stevex wrote :
I am not so sure I would reduce the bill on work for a lady unless I was sleeping with her, but that is just me.
Hmmm... I believe there is another name for that.
- October 26th, 2009, 12:37 pm
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I am not so sure I would reduce the bill on work for a lady unless I was sleeping with her, but that is just me.

Quid pro quo baby.

It's my idea for a new dating paradigm ~ take out the players and the gold diggers and the rest of us are free! Free I say!
- October 26th, 2009, 12:40 pm
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Huh?

I wouldn't know. I don't pay attention to what other people think.
Ahh I am a big flirt and I used to flirt with the other guys on our parish board. After my divorce I was hit with women hiding their men. I found it funny cause I would never touch a married man. Wasn't sure if you had any strange things like that happen.

I miss being on the board. Me and another woman spent the better part of one meeting commenting on how hard Robert's (ran the concession stand) pretzels were lately. How they seemed to be harder depending on who was handling them. So childish, so fun. We were told to sit in the corner if we didn't behave.
- October 26th, 2009, 12:48 pm
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That is the polar opposite of your response when I said I fleece players in bars for drinks!
Busted, Frog.
- October 26th, 2009, 01:01 pm
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