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chawks64 is trying very hard to be patient. Definitely not my best talent.

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jayjay wrote :
Some women will put this kind of thing right out there in a profile. Like a match that recently came to my attention:

"People don't notice my tender heart and that underneath this unassuming exterior is a romantic, gentle woman that wishes to be loved, cared for, protected, and appreciated."
So what did you do?
- October 24th, 2009, 05:10 pm
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chawks64 wrote :
So what did you do?
I had previously closed her back in July....either for not responding or for not having any photos (I can't remember which was the reason...and she still has no photos up). She just requested that I reopen her....and as she has a lot of things written in her profile that I like I accepted to reopen her.
- October 24th, 2009, 05:16 pm
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I had previously closed her back in July....either for not responding or for not having any photos (I can't remember which was the reason...and she still has no photos up). She just requested that I reopen her....and as she has a lot of things written in her profile that I like I accepted to reopen her.
I like what she wrote. But get them pics!
- October 24th, 2009, 05:18 pm
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chawks64 wrote :
I like what she wrote. But get them pics!
Definitely.
- October 24th, 2009, 05:21 pm
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THAT is a scary picture!^^^^^^^^
oops Tiny Tim was right um there.... hmmmmm
- October 24th, 2009, 11:46 pm
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jayjay wrote :
Like when all those meanies on eHA gang up on you and you need someone to tell you that you're not a total freak. Seriously though....some people just aren't in touch with many of their feelings of vulnerability. Maybe that's why this seems very foreign to you.
- October 24th, 2009, 11:55 pm
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meri75 wrote :
Really? Mine bring them in the house alive and then let them go. I often come home to tell tale patches of blood on the floor tiles.
mine eats them (yuck) unless i rescue them first. one of the reasons she's only allowed outside supervised now.

I have no idea why she would want to eat a yucky mouse when i buy organic cold processed human grade food for her. (dry and wet)
- October 25th, 2009, 01:05 am
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I have no idea why she would want to eat a yucky mouse when i buy organic cold processed human grade food for her. (dry and wet)
Ahh....now I have a better understanding of why you have a 'CatWoman' avatar.
- October 25th, 2009, 01:07 am
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Catwoman is cool. My favorite villainess. There's a costume idea maybe.
- October 25th, 2009, 01:12 am
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jayjay wrote :
Ahh....now I have a better understanding of why you have a 'CatWoman' avatar.
I'm not a crazy cat lady- i need about 9 more cats for that.
- October 25th, 2009, 01:14 am
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