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I'm about 30 lbs overweight. Maybe because I'm 98% muscle lol.
- October 23rd, 2009, 02:45 pm
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*sighs* at this whole thread in general...
- October 23rd, 2009, 02:54 pm
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Faira wrote :
*sighs* at this whole thread in general...
That's good to know.

*belches at this thread in general*
- October 23rd, 2009, 03:02 pm
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dure204 wrote :

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9CUic2Wm3I...muffin+top.jpg

or for men, something like this (affectionately known as the "beer belly"):

http://4pack.files.wordpress.com/200...at-obesity.jpg

For those with big legs and butt with a significant amount of cellulite, that is a strong sign they are overweight.

Take a look at the photo here for some perspective:

http://jkc2009.files.wordpress.com/2...men-sizes1.jpg

I wouldn't consider any of these women overweight. Their weight is equally distributed, they all have hourglass shapes, and their weight appears to be appropriate for their bone structure.
Hey you know the line. That's not a beer belly it's a fuel tank for a sex machine.
- October 23rd, 2009, 03:18 pm
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In HS I was a size 8. I played 3 sports including xcountry.

I guess sizes hae changed a lot?
I think women's sizes don't make any sense at all. Some of the marketing people wacked out the sizes. My sister was very petite, and she wore 6's and 8's, and I don't think there was a zero.
- October 23rd, 2009, 04:38 pm
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TracyBluebird wrote :
I also think women can look fatter when they cram themselves into clothes that do not flatter or fit them. This was especially true with the low waist jeans where the flab had no where to hide! So unflattering!

I think that's called a "muffin top".
- October 23rd, 2009, 07:29 pm
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That's good to know.

*belches at this thread in general*
Smart-a$$.

You think you're soooo funny....bah, I say!
- October 23rd, 2009, 07:52 pm
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Ladies, believe me when I say that not all guys are after the "hollywood" perfect body.

In fact, I personally prefer slightly chubby girls on the heavier side. Curves and softer to cuddle with.

Just my 2 cents.
- October 24th, 2009, 06:24 pm
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Size depends on bone structure. I'd be fat if I wore an eight because I'm tiny. By best friend is totally fit and lean and wears an 8 that turns heads.
- October 24th, 2009, 08:01 pm
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Ladies, believe me when I say that not all guys are after the "hollywood" perfect body.
That's right.....only a few of us are.
- October 24th, 2009, 08:04 pm
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