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Shelby wrote :
If you want to keep it platonic and not get tempted, stay in the public eye (i.e. rendezvous at a store or cafe) and wear lots of clothing layers. No makeup or sexy lingerie. Make it a daytime date. No dark movie theaters. No warm embraces. And don't head to each other's place!!!

How about a museum and/brunch? Or a walk along a park trail or riverwalk or ocean or pier. Stroll the stores downtown or in a local neighborhood. Go for a run or a bike ride.

(Keep looking at the hawt Lance Armstrong muscle ads on the right and you may be able to shift your lust elsewhere - LOL )

Thanks Shelby! I actually like your museum idea! Weather isn't THAT great here so a walk by the river might be a possibility but it depends how chilly it is.
- October 23rd, 2009, 08:04 am
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I'd cook you dinner at my place.
Ohhh! Gooder idea jayjay! Although I can't exactly tell my date he has to do that! ha ha
- October 23rd, 2009, 08:04 am
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I'm just saying that what we are going to tell you is what "we" like. And of course tastes are all over the map. You've had 3 dates, you should have a good idea of what you both like to do. If not, then that's a red flag. Or at least a yellow one.
- October 23rd, 2009, 08:09 am
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Hey! Ok - so Ive been out with this guy 3 times since last Friday. Things were going well but wet a bit further
You did mean to say wet, didn't you? lol
- October 23rd, 2009, 08:21 am
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Nanette wrote :
I vote for bowling. I love that game and not enough people to do it.

I also personally favor the old old bowling alleys not the spiffy new upscale ones.

Batting cages are cool too!
I would go bowling with you but I will have to tell you I am not very good.
- October 23rd, 2009, 09:47 am
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A long car ride to Banff (or anywhere else) is not a good idea for this purpose. Too much alone together time.

Bowling, mini golf, a movie, shoot some pool. A lot of towns are having fall festivals or Halloween related activities this time of year. There is a town close to me that has a car show every Friday night which I have been thinking might be a good date outing.

You could throw in a pizza, burgers or deli sandwich before or after any of the above or finish up with ice cream and have a great, fun evening.
- October 23rd, 2009, 09:55 am
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What's platonic?
- October 23rd, 2009, 10:01 am
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You did mean to say wet, didn't you? lol
LMAO! Oh my - no i didn't mean to - but I suppose it would have made sense anyway - ha!
- October 23rd, 2009, 11:49 am
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Mokkesofie wrote :
What's platonic?
lol - we just dont want to have too much of an opportunity to get too physical!
Kissing, holding hands is fine..but everything else is hands off...and we failed our first test so now we're trying to not get ourselves into a situation where this could happen again.
- October 23rd, 2009, 11:55 am
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Gr8Guyn2008 wrote :
A long car ride to Banff (or anywhere else) is not a good idea for this purpose. Too much alone together time.

Bowling, mini golf, a movie, shoot some pool. A lot of towns are having fall festivals or Halloween related activities this time of year. There is a town close to me that has a car show every Friday night which I have been thinking might be a good date outing.

You could throw in a pizza, burgers or deli sandwich before or after any of the above or finish up with ice cream and have a great, fun evening.
The only reason I suggested Banff is because we're kinda planning on spending the day/evening together. Alone time in a car is ok...its not like we're going to pull over and get busy! ha ha
I was actually wanting to get tickets to the Flames game but its like $300!! boooo
Good ideas! Maybe if its nice enough we could do the zoo..dinner..and then a movie or something!
- October 23rd, 2009, 11:57 am
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