Advice please, I've met someone I really like, but not sure what to do next?


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Georgetheman is offline Georgetheman Post #21  October 28,2009, 10:19am
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Just call her and be totally upfront. "Okay, so I was thinking. Rather than hanging out with you and your friends, I'd like to go out with you. You know, like a date."

If she likes you, she'll be surprised and excited. If she just wants to be friends, you find out right away. You save your sanity and you can start getting over her right now. Believe me, I've been there.

There's no beating around the bush. You just have to jump in and make your intentions known. The way our culture does that is giving out phone numbers (women) and asking out on dates (men). She did her part, now do yours!

And don't worry about the fact that you already sent her vague text messages. She was probably confused by them. Your direct communication will be a relief.
 
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