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Friday-Sunday capped off a 6 day work week for me. 2/3 of those days being 6am-7pm days. Outside all day. 6 layers of clothing. I'm still tired.
This weekend should be better. Trying to get together with an old friend and maybe see Where The Wild Things Are or Paranormal Activity if it gets close enough.
- October 19th, 2009, 05:50 pm
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Trying to get together with an old friend and maybe see Where The Wild Things Are...
That was my favorite book as a child. I'll have to see the movie sometime too.
- October 19th, 2009, 05:53 pm
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I had a great weekend....didn't get the "I see you don't have much time for me" phone call...so far so good!
- October 19th, 2009, 06:17 pm
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Was supposed to have a first date on Sunday evening with an eHarmony match. She was squirrelly, decided I was not in her league and canceled. I closed her and she got p i ssed.

Howsomeever, I am supposed to have a first date with another eHarmony match on Wednesday evening. Really looking forward to this one.
- October 19th, 2009, 06:23 pm
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Saturday movie date with my local EH guy -- Toy Story I and II in 3-D. Then dinner afterward at a restaurant. Nice conversation, he's a good man, but I'm starting to feel "nice-guy-but. . ." vibes about him.

Then I get home and my LD EH guy turned down my suggestion to get together with him next weekend when I'm in his area. He said he was helping an old friend set up a baby shower. WTH?Is that an all-weekend event? (And how many guys help put together baby showers??)

I'm thinking of the adage "if he really wants to see you, he'll see you." Maybe I need to tell him "see-ya..."
- October 19th, 2009, 06:49 pm
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Worked Saturday, sat on my butt Sunday.

Nothing new.
- October 19th, 2009, 07:28 pm
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I had a nice date on Saturday. It was interesting. The evening was nice ... not without a few red flags ... but it was a nice jump start to dating again. I like the guy and he wants to go out again. An eH match. We'll see.
- October 20th, 2009, 12:19 am
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cp30 wrote :
Oh, yeah, I had a date. It wasn't really what I envisioned, I had plans for us to do one thing and another thing happened....wasn't really a good or bad date. More of a continuation of a date from a few months ago, not sure how I feel about it yet...
Hope you decide you feel good about it, or if not that it's easy to let go so there's room for something you will feel good about to move into your life!
- October 20th, 2009, 12:19 am
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legend29 wrote :
I had a great weekend....didn't get the "I see you don't have much time for me" phone call...so far so good!
No news is good news, huh Legend?
- October 20th, 2009, 12:22 am
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Gr8Guyn2008 wrote :
Was supposed to have a first date on Sunday evening with an eHarmony match. She was squirrelly, decided I was not in her league and canceled. I closed her and she got p i ssed.

Howsomeever, I am supposed to have a first date with another eHarmony match on Wednesday evening. Really looking forward to this one.
Sorry about squirrely girl. She decided you were not in her league and then got mad when YOU closed?

*scratches head*

Anyway, crossing my fingers for Wednesday night -- keep us posted!!!
- October 20th, 2009, 12:24 am
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