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I had a fourth date on Friday, REALLY enjoyed it, and a first date with an eH match on Sunday. Interesting guy and he's asked me out again for next weekend. Not sure I feel the chemistry yet (or at all), but I think there's potential so I said yes.
- October 19th, 2009, 02:06 pm
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dixiechemist wrote :
Anyways, thanks eharmony, great match!
That must be the elusive 30th dimension of (in)compatibility. I find a lot of troubled people like this out there.
- October 19th, 2009, 02:08 pm
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Yeah... Well I have a ton of matches, and have only been on a few weeks, so I'm not giving up hope (yet). If it continues like this, though, I'm not going to renew when the bill is due.
- October 19th, 2009, 02:12 pm
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We spent Friday night together. After dinner in a fabulous Italian restaurant, we watched Titus. Saturday, he took me out for a long motorcycle ride. I filled my lungs with fresh scent of pine trees. We had great fun!
- October 19th, 2009, 02:24 pm
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pds857 wrote :
Oh wow I love the weekend round ups!

Ok so, Friday had friends over, played the card games "B.S." an Yuker (I'm guessin on the spellin) Had fun talkin to my guy friend for a while. Thats pretty much it. lol That ended round 3am.

Saturday up early bout 8am, fixed 2 Lasagnas, bunches of salad an garlic bread, brownies for dessert lol an bunches of sweet tea, invited anyone who wanted to come over, to come on over, an fed everyone an then I proceeded to win 4 rounds of "B.S." in a row! I laughed So hard I was actually cryin because they couldnt figure how I did it lol. (I dont have a very good "poker face" so they were baffled to say the least) That all ended round 1am an then....

Sunday, up early round 7am I baby sat my 2 nieces for my Brother an his wife since it was their 5th anniversary an they went out to eat an a movie, then I went out with my guy friend, he took me out to dinner, we talked an laughed an had a great time. It was closing time for the resturant we went to by the time we realized how late it was, an finally left lol

We werent ready to head back to my house so we went to 'wally world' an jus walked around talkin an holdin hands laughin an havin fun, I attempted to sneak up on him a couple of times, an was unsucsessful to say the least. LOL But it was still silly an fun.
We actually didnt get back to my house until bout 1am this morning.
Then we said our goodnights in person, then again, on the phone when he got home.

So I didnt get to sleep until oh I dont know, round 2am? An had to wake up at 5:30am to drive my mother an a few others to the airport for their cruse they left for this mornin. The drive takes 1 an a half hrs one way so I drove for a total of 3 hrs on 3 an half hrs of sleep, then took me a nap an came into work an am T-I-R-E-D! lol

I really LOVE my weekends, but boy am I tired an am lookin forward to restin this week after work lol.
Oh I forgot, I gotta work on my halloween party costume this week an next week so its ready for the halloween party. Ah. Ok, I can do this, but first on my monday agenda after work is a NAP! lol
WOW, you had a full, and fun weekend! The kind of weekend where you need a weekend to recover from your weekend! LOL
- October 19th, 2009, 03:17 pm
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dixiechemist wrote :
I didn't realize she had a drinking problem until Sunday (though I suspected it on Saturday). Who starts drinking at 10 am on a Sunday, anyways?
Sorry the date ended badly but at least you found out very early on....the last person I was beginning to date showed signs of alcoholism and gambling addiction and I dropped him like a hot potato.

I think one of the biggest mistakes daters make is overlooking early red flags and/or thinking they can somehow change someone with troubling habits.

And now, onward and upward for you!
- October 19th, 2009, 03:24 pm
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three_eyes wrote :
I had a fourth date on Friday, REALLY enjoyed it, and a first date with an eH match on Sunday. Interesting guy and he's asked me out again for next weekend. Not sure I feel the chemistry yet (or at all), but I think there's potential so I said yes.
Nice! Even if the chemistry doesn't develop with the newer guy, it sounds as if you have a great fifth date to look forward to with the first guy. Keep us posted!
- October 19th, 2009, 03:25 pm
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Daphnie wrote :
We spent Friday night together. After dinner in a fabulous Italian restaurant, we watched Titus. Saturday, he took me out for a long motorcycle ride. I filled my lungs with fresh scent of pine trees. We had great fun!
Sounds wonderful! Is there another date planned?

I love the idea of motorcycle rides much more than the reality (I am a huge scaredy-cat when it comes to bikes) but make mine a convertibible!
- October 19th, 2009, 03:28 pm
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three_eyes wrote :
I had a fourth date on Friday, REALLY enjoyed it, and a first date with an eH match on Sunday. Interesting guy and he's asked me out again for next weekend. Not sure I feel the chemistry yet (or at all), but I think there's potential so I said yes.
Was the guy you had the 4th date with the one you'd like to also see during the week (that you mentioned on another thread)?
- October 19th, 2009, 03:30 pm
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WOW, you had a full, and fun weekend! The kind of weekend where you need a weekend to recover from your weekend! LOL
LOL Lori you are so right about that one, but I think its worth it.
I jus love spendin time with those I care for. An fixin din for everyone is always a plus with all the yums an mmmmm so good remarks lol
Jus gives me a big head with all those compliments lol Love it! lol

An of course my weekends are not complete until I get some time in with my guy friend. I'm so glad he feels the same. (I know because he told me so, well an sides the obvious that if he didnt he wouldnt be there lol )

Still goin slow, but some progress is better than no progress right?

Oh an I know that I type 'lol' a lot, but I promise its not from habit, its from me actually bein so giddy an gigglin an yes actually laughin out loud lol
- October 19th, 2009, 03:39 pm
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