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I mostly hang out by the side of the pool watching the men in their little bathing suits. Every once in a while I dive in and swim a lap or two, and then decide I don't like how the guy swims. Or he doesn't like how I swim, or my bathing suit or something. So I get out again and watch from the sidelines for a couple or three weeks.
- October 20th, 2009, 09:06 pm
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jayjay wrote :
No....I expected this to generate much more of an uproar than it did.
Today I read the exchanged texts between McNair and one of his mistresses in their final hours and I could not help being bothered by how often she used "baby."
- October 20th, 2009, 09:10 pm
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peg099 wrote :
I mostly hang out by the side of the pool watching the men in their little bathing suits.
Unfortunately in the place I go to there are only a very few men who actually look good in their bathing suits
- October 20th, 2009, 09:11 pm
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EMTZ wrote :
Am I the only one who finds calling an SO honey or baby unappealing?
jayjay wrote :
No....I expected this to generate much more of an uproar than it did.
I like it!

But then again, I'll take just about any kind of attention I can get...
- October 20th, 2009, 09:12 pm
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chawks64 wrote :
I like it!

But then again, I'll take just about any kind of attention I can get...
Bueno....carino mio.
- October 20th, 2009, 09:17 pm
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EMTZ wrote :
Unfortunately in the place I go to there are only a very few men who actually look good in their bathing suits
You need to either learn to selectively block out the unattractive ones or find another pool
- October 20th, 2009, 09:22 pm
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jayjay wrote :
Bueno....carino mio.
Dios mio! Besa me... rapido!
- October 20th, 2009, 09:23 pm
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nightling wrote :
aww what happened?
Thanks much for asking nightling.
Healed enough to trust... then first time out, got jerked around a bit.
I still refuse to become closed and cynical! As long as I'm willing to risk putting myself out there, I take the chance of some OUCHes.
C'est la vie... and watch that drain!!!
- October 20th, 2009, 09:26 pm
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Dios mio! Besa me... rapido!
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- October 20th, 2009, 09:27 pm
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jayjay wrote :
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Cool. Now I can start a new thread, griping about jayjay and all we could have been, and how he only left me because I wasn't as skinny as he wanted, but he never did pay for dinner anyway, except that one time when he used a coupon, and does he think that's a real car he's driving? He never did listen to me anyway, no matter how much I talked and talked and talked and talked...
- October 20th, 2009, 09:30 pm
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