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Gr8Guyn2008 I wanna know what love is, I want you to show me

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Are there any deal breakers right off the bat?

A big no no for me is men with long nails. It totally sceeves me out!!
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I have to think this is pretty shallow and something that could be easily fixed.
- October 16th, 2009, 07:28 am
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I will once again presume that you are meaning instant close to an online match. Many of the things that are mentioned by others are not revealed within a profile.

Some things that will get me to close instantly are obviously obese, photo is just , mentioning anything over and over in every section of her profile. liking to ride motorcycles.
- October 16th, 2009, 07:38 am
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If her legs were hairier than mine would be an instant turn-off.
- October 16th, 2009, 08:04 am
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A wedding ring. (Or the tan line of where the ring usually is worn)
- October 16th, 2009, 09:08 am
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A roommate's new man came to our house and kicked our kitten. She actually did not dump him!
- October 16th, 2009, 09:09 am
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Sassafras54 wrote :
A roommate's new man came to our house and kicked our kitten. She actually did not dump him!
You should've kicked his arse and sent him down the road.
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- October 16th, 2009, 09:58 am
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Contango wrote :
Far and away, a victim mentality which is often obscured by that huge chip on his shoulder. Also, with regard to Eh specifically I really hate shocking moment when you first meet someone and realize that the profile picture is 10 years old and 20 lbs lighter
People that live in glass houses, yata yata, I noticed that you seem to be a bummer always complaining never saying anything nice or constructive.
Chip on your shoulder?

No one wants to take a picture with an apple in their mouth or a Turkey Leg either, it's just that people want you to see them as they perceive themselves or others to see them. (wishful thinking? Yes.) If you have established a rapport with them and you like them, what difference does it make? Oh' I see your a perfect person that is forced to live in an imperfect world.

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- October 16th, 2009, 10:15 am
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Harvey7 wrote :
People that live in glass houses, yata yata, I noticed that you seem to be a bummer always complaining never saying anything nice or constructive.
Chip on your shoulder?

No one wants to take a picture with an apple in their mouth or a Turkey Leg either, it's just that people want you to see them as they perceive themselves or others to see them. (wishful thinking? Yes.) If you have established a rapport with them and you like them, what difference does it make? Oh' I see your a perfect person that is forced to live in an imperfect world.

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Glad to know you find my 8, erm 9 posts so enjoyable. Oh, and thanks for the abject example of my point
- October 16th, 2009, 10:25 am
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You should've kicked his arse and sent him down the road.
He was made to leave and wasn't allowed back in the house again.

Unfortunately she continued to see him and foreseeably it was an abusive relationship.
- October 16th, 2009, 10:35 am
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jayjay wrote :
A sense of entitlement and attitude that she deserves to be pandered to by all men.
Yep. That, and .........

And a sense of entitlement and attitude that he is a big old catch and that I'm lucky to get him.
- October 16th, 2009, 11:31 am
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