Should you kiss on first date?


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BIGLAR75 is offline BIGLAR75 Post #71  April 10,2010, 3:14am
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If you kiss her goodnight and she crosses her legs and breaks your eyeglasses. You are moving to fast.
 
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VolGal is offline VolGal Post #72  April 12,2010, 7:02pm
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hogrally wrote :
No Tongue !!

Take her jaw in your hand
Look her in the eye
Lean in slowly and just before your lips touch hers whisper..
Thank you for a memorable night
kiss gently
And then be a gentleman and pick her up off the floor because her knees will give out and she'll go thud...
This is real good. I got shivers and tingles just reading it.

Now I wish it would happen....
 
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bwight is offline bwight Post #73  April 12,2010, 7:58pm
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The best thing to do on a first date if things are going well is to kiss her before the end of the date. Pick a time when it feels right and pull her in close (dancing here can help if you're in a club) whatever you do don't move in too fast. Go for the top lip, which side doesn't really matter (unless one side has a mole) just make sure you pick a side and stick with it, don't be changing your mind on the approach. No tongue only lips because if you're good she'll be dying to know what it would be like. When you pull away do it slowly. Make sure your eyes meet and when they do give her a little smile. Continue whatever you were doing on the date and don't kiss her again until you drop her off at home. I guarantee this time she'll use some tongue... she's been thinking about it all night.

Oh... I almost forgot, no gum!
 
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I guess I'm a little different because I make it very obvious when I want a man to kiss me. When my boyfriend and I were on our first date, we had already talked on the phone for more than 3 hours, then talked on our date for another 5 or 6, so the attraction was definitely there.

He was thirsty and the waitress was nowhere in sight, so I offered him a sip of my drink. I warned him that there was lipstick on the rim of the mug, and he said he didn't mind. Then I told him, if he really wanted some of my lipstick, there were better ways to get it. He got a big grin and kissed me.

So far, so good...
 
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jess79 wrote :
I disagree. If a woman kisses you on the cheek, it's an invitation... a flirt. I don't kiss my guy friends, at all, period. But if, at the end of the first date, I really like the guy but he doesn't come in for the kiss, I might kiss him on the cheek, to let him know how I feel. A lot of women may not feel comfortable initiating the first kiss on the lips, and it's less risky to kiss a man on the cheek the first time.
I like this. It would at least let me know she's interested. I'm either not reading the signals or they're not giving them. My dating life is a disaster. I never go in for the kiss on the first date. I figure if I get a second date, then she's into me and I can do it then. I agree with others about letting her initiate french kissing, which always has happened in my dating experience.
 
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chawks64 wrote :
I guess I'm a little different because I make it very obvious when I want a man to kiss me. When my boyfriend and I were on our first date, we had already talked on the phone for more than 3 hours, then talked on our date for another 5 or 6, so the attraction was definitely there.

He was thirsty and the waitress was nowhere in sight, so I offered him a sip of my drink. I warned him that there was lipstick on the rim of the mug, and he said he didn't mind. Then I told him, if he really wanted some of my lipstick, there were better ways to get it. He got a big grin and kissed me.

So far, so good...
Classy application of sledgehammer subtlety.


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