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Oh no. Another example of me not thinking it through. I've read the posts and now see kissing as the complicated thing that it really is.

It's almost involuntary with me that when I say goodbye I do a continental-european-my-best-mate-is-gay-we-wish-we-lived-in-New-York-mwah-mwah-peck-on-the-cheeks thing.

No wonder I'm single! On the rare ocassions I get a date I've effectively been giving them the subliminal message that either a) You appear gay to me or b) Wouldn't it be better if I was your rich, sophisticated Aunt?

I will pay more attention to the rest of these posts, I promise.
- October 11th, 2009, 04:55 pm
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Well on the first date of what turned out to be my last relationship, I was affectionate with her during the date. A few soft kisses on the lips (in the rain no less!) but no tongue.

At the end of the date, when she drove me home and we were sitting in the driveway, we kissed again and she was the one who pulled me in for a long deep french kiss. Good thing I was still sitting because I would have been the one that went "thud"! LOL

We were together for six months after that, so it was not a bad thing really.

But for the most part, I agree with the others... a french kiss on the first date usually leads you no where.

I went on a first date last night with an EH match, just coffee together. Our date ended with a hug over the car door. I probably could have kissed her but did not have "the feeling" so I chose not too. Save that for later when it will be more special!
- October 11th, 2009, 04:57 pm
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Depends on how the date went -- and only a quick kiss, no tongue.
- October 11th, 2009, 05:34 pm
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I've never been kissed on a first date.
- October 11th, 2009, 07:08 pm
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Mangosteen wrote :
I've never been kissed on a first date.
Yeah, well.....you need to stop dating 'boys'. lol
- October 11th, 2009, 07:30 pm
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jayjay wrote :
Yeah, well.....you need to stop dating 'boys'. lol

Score 1 for jayjay...
- October 11th, 2009, 07:32 pm
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ooooh boy... i guess i happen to like boys :P never thought no kissing on the first or second dates was weird... or even the third. come here to find out everyone else is doing it!
- October 11th, 2009, 07:35 pm
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hogrally wrote :
No Tongue !!

Take her jaw in your hand
Look her in the eye
Lean in slowly and just before your lips touch hers whisper..
Thank you for a memorable night
kiss gently
And then be a gentleman and pick her up off the floor because her knees will give out and she'll go thud...
ROFLMAO
- October 11th, 2009, 07:37 pm
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Mangosteen wrote :
ooooh boy... i guess i happen to like boys :P never thought no kissing on the first or second dates was weird... or even the third. come here to find out everyone else is doing it!
Come join us on the wild side, Honey - we have more fun here!

(I'll take the men and you can have all of the boys)
- October 11th, 2009, 07:40 pm
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Mangosteen wrote :
ooooh boy... i guess i happen to like boys :P never thought no kissing on the first or second dates was weird... or even the third. come here to find out everyone else is doing it!
It's ok...don't worry. At a certain age dating 'boys' is appropriate. But someday you'll grow up and start dating men.
- October 11th, 2009, 07:40 pm
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