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I see. Do you think the 'gender roles' question in the first round of GC on eH would tend to scare you? Maybe they're less scary there because people 'have to' select some of them....so it's like your match had to ask one of these questions whether they wanted to or not. Still....apparently eH thinks gender roles is a good topic to discuss early on. That seems to be how you were leaning toward interpreting his questions.
No, the gender roles question in the first round of guided communication on eHarmony.com would not scare me precisely because of the reason you stated (i.e., because it seems like a standard multiple choice question).

By the way, I decided to seek clarification of his question, and the following was his reply to me this morning:

Subject: Message: I have been trying to meet a woman who doesn't want to arm wrestle me to be equal, and so far it has been VERY difficult.

Nice to meet you
 
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I see. Do you think the 'gender roles' question in the first round of GC on eH would tend to scare you? Maybe they're less scary there because people 'have to' select some of them....so it's like your match had to ask one of these questions whether they wanted to or not. Still....apparently eH thinks gender roles is a good topic to discuss early on. That seems to be how you were leaning toward interpreting his questions.
No, the gender roles question in the first round of guided communication on eHarmony.com would not scare me precisely because of the reason you stated (i.e., because it seems like a standard multiple choice question).

By the way, I decided to seek clarification of his question, and the following was his reply to me this morning:

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I have been trying to meet a woman who doesn't want to arm wrestle me to be equal, and so far it has been VERY difficult.

Nice to meet you.
 
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I stopped flirting with future dates for one reason:

I kept ~meeting~ my future dates!

Egads...

In many cases, a brain-eating zombie would've been preferred.

After we've met, or after we've got some dialogue or interest generated, I love the sexy texting and mailing.

Just not before we have some ground to stand on, eh.


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parakeetjordan wrote :
By the way, I decided to seek clarification of his question, and the following was his reply to me this morning:

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Thank heaven

Message:

I have been trying to meet a woman who doesn't want to arm wrestle me to be equal, and so far it has been VERY difficult.

Nice to meet you.










You should tell him you don't get into arm wrestling....you much prefer bench press competitions.
 
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Oh, really. Not clean and jerk?
 
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