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jayjay wrote :
If that's what you think he meant....do you think these differ from the prewritten 'gender roles' question that can be selected in the first round of GC? Does a man scare you if he selects this prewritten question in the first round?
I'm sorry you're under the weather. :-)

I don't think he had the choice to select the prewritten gender roles question because he asked me these questions under the guided communication of chemistry.com. My membership in eharmony.com is ending, and I decided to try chemistry.com.
- October 12th, 2009, 01:57 am
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I love the responses to this!(O;
- October 12th, 2009, 02:37 am
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parakeetjordan wrote :
I'm sorry you're under the weather. :-)

I don't think he had the choice to select the prewritten gender roles question because he asked me these questions under the guided communication of chemistry.com. My membership in eharmony.com is ending, and I decided to try chemistry.com.
I see. Do you think the 'gender roles' question in the first round of GC on eH would tend to scare you? Maybe they're less scary there because people 'have to' select some of them....so it's like your match had to ask one of these questions whether they wanted to or not. Still....apparently eH thinks gender roles is a good topic to discuss early on. That seems to be how you were leaning toward interpreting his questions.
- October 12th, 2009, 08:16 am
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Sorry Saul.

Actually you're right, I don't do sexy party flirting on eHarmony, there's no scope for it, and bizarely, it seems inappropriate. These boards are way more flirty than eHarmony.

So in a more considered response to the OP, yeah, I would feel creeped out by anyone asking this type of question at the guided questions phase. From reading more details in their profile I'd make a judgement about whether they were either joking and reply jokingly or for real and close them down.

Is the wedding back on now Saul?
Whaa? What did I do???

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I don't think thats too suggestive, MY first two custom questions in GC were:
1. What are you wearing
2.What would you do to me

- October 12th, 2009, 09:34 am
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MY first two custom questions in GC were:
1. What are you wearing
2.What would you do to me
I think the polite eH versions of those questions are the 'Describe your personal style' and 'What would you do if I had a bad day' questions.
- October 12th, 2009, 09:50 am
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jayjay wrote :
I think the polite eH versions of those questions are the 'Describe your personal style' and 'What would you do if I had a bad day' questions.
You are such a gentle plum.
- October 12th, 2009, 10:08 am
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You are such a gentle plum.
I'm ripe too.
- October 12th, 2009, 10:13 am
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jayjay wrote :
I think the polite eH versions of those questions are the 'Describe your personal style' and 'What would you do if I had a bad day' questions.

Ha Ha!
- October 12th, 2009, 10:17 am
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ennoidyam wrote :
Whaa? What did I do???

To the OP:

I don't think thats too suggestive, MY first two custom questions in GC were:
1. What are you wearing
2.What would you do to me

Really?! LOL
- October 12th, 2009, 10:38 am
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jayjay wrote :
I think the polite eH versions of those questions are the 'Describe your personal style' and 'What would you do if I had a bad day' questions.
You guys are funny. Your comments just put a smile on my face.
- October 12th, 2009, 10:40 am
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