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Andrea8823 is offline Andrea8823 Post #1  October 4,2009, 7:18pm
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There's this guy who has come into my work twice in the last month. I work at a pizza place, so when he comes in, I'm the one that cashes him out and gets his order. He usually makes small talk with me and smiles alot, and I chat back. He's on my friends list on facebook because I went to high school with him...

He came in on Friday and talked to me, so when I went home Friday nite, I "poked' him on facebook. For those of you who aren't familiar with facebook, it's basically a flirty option that people can return.

Well he finally "poked' me back a couple hours ago. I don't know what to do now.. should I send him a message? Please help!
 
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Are you interested in this man for a romantic relationhip?

If so, I think something more "adult" than a "facebook poke" (what?) would be a good idea. Something definitive, such as speakig to him, in person, and stating your intent.

When in doubt, try.

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Either send him an email or a pizza!
 
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Delivery the pizza in person, even better!
 
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well it would be hard to talk about my romantic intent at work because there are usually other people in line, or other co-workers around that i don't want knowing my business lol
 
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Andrea8823 wrote :
well it would be hard to talk about my romantic intent at work because there are usually other people in line, or other co-workers around that i don't want knowing my business lol
Just send him an email saying hello.. Let it take it's course from there.
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Yeah, I always thought he was cute and he seems really nice when he comes in and talks to me.
 
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Does he have photo's on his FB. If so, there's your email ..

Hey I like your pictures, but you're much cuter in person.. or something like that..... Flirt with him!!! If he is a "smart" guy.. He will know you're flirting and hopefully take the lead.
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Yeah but he only has one pic up, and it's pretty old. He has actually gained some weight since then, which doesn't bother me obviously.
 
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Okay then.. So here is option #2..

So do you really like pizza that much or do you just come in to see me?
 
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