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SweetNSassyMe is offline SweetNSassyMe Post #1  October 2,2009, 11:31pm
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For those who remember me.. I went on a few dates with a 40 yr old military guy who seemed perfect in everyway...

I posted because he and I hadn't setup anything post sex. Well, he stopped contacting me a week we had sex for the first time..a few days after I posted here (no he's not a member). I thought I was ok, he was communicating with me post sex, and said he was interested in seeing me again. But I guess I didn't! I'm so lost at what I did wrong.

Thanks to those who responded..

Sweets...

For those who complained... OP who is a newbie to the boards posted a link to the original post which is http://advice.eharmony.com/boards/da...hat-going.html (What is going on...)
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Gr8Guyn2008 is offline Gr8Guyn2008 Post #2  October 3,2009, 4:30am
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You had sex with him too soon.

He got what he wanted and now he is in search of his next conquest.
 
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DennisWisconsin is offline DennisWisconsin Post #3  October 3,2009, 5:01am
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SweetNSassyMe wrote :
For those who remember me.. I went on a few dates with a 40 yr old military guy who seemed perfect in everyway...

I posted because he and I hadn't setup anything post sex. Well, he stopped contacting me a week we had sex for the first time..a few days after I posted here (no he's not a member). I thought I was ok, he was communicating with me post sex, and said he was interested in seeing me again. But I guess I didn't! I'm so lost at what I did wrong.

Thanks to those who responded..

Sweets...
Your post is very confusing. First you write that he stopped talking with you and then you write he was. You write he was interested in seeing you again but then you say you didn't? hmmm...
 
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Gr8Guyn2008 wrote :
You had sex with him too soon.

He got what he wanted and now he is in search of his next conquest.
such generalisations. no one can know that ... I had sex with 1st wife, well I don't think we'd had an actual date at that stage ... we were togther for 18 years and 3 children ... you can't never know such things unless you're the parties involved.
 
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That is a terrible sinking feeling when you realize that you "goofed up."
Once I was quickly dumped after sleeping with a man.
I don't think I'll make that mistake again, because I wait for serious signals, not so much time only.
 
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DennisWisconsin wrote :
Your post is very confusing. First you write that he stopped talking with you and then you write he was. You write he was interested in seeing you again but then you say you didn't? hmmm...
I agree.
It's often helpful to continue with the same thread instead of starting a new one.

I can't figure out what she's trying to say either.
 
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I know we left off on the other thread that you had left a message asking him out. What was his response to you? What happened??

Have you just not heard from him since then?? Or did something happen??
 
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SweetNSassyMe wrote :
I'm so lost at what I did wrong.

Sweets...
I can be in Vegas in 6 hours. Perhaps we can discuss this in private?
 
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Lanc wrote :
I can be in Vegas in 6 hours. Perhaps we can discuss this in private?

Yeah Lanc, do that. I can't figure out what this OP is trying to say.
 
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beentherehavetee wrote :
Yeah Lanc, do that. I can't figure out what this OP is trying to say.
I don't think it is that hard. She slept with him. She heard from him. She hasn't seen him. She worries that she won't see him ever again.
Maybe I am wrong? OP defend yourself!
 
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