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Italia2010 is offline Italia2010 Post #1  October 1,2009, 10:37am
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I was out on my 2d dinner date with an eHarmony match. We were discussing our likes/dislikes. Then he comes out and blurts that he "Likes Sex!" U can imagine the look on my face. I'm by no means a prude . . . but please give me a break! I was offended by this comment. Your thoughts please!
 
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Yup, can you imagine that! time and time again I want to give these guys the benefit of the doubt! and then they end up with this type of stuff (*&$%). I didn't give this guy any sensual/sexual indication. He is newly divorced (2 years) - seems nice but needy (yup, I'm sure of that!) Was he just trying to be funny . . . or that's just what most of these guys are looking for? Easy online sex . . .! I think I'm going to be straight up with him and tell him exactly how I felt about his comment and that he should go on his merry way. Feedback, please! gracias.
 
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Italia2010,

How did the rest of the evening go? He may just be experiencing the beginning of realizing he likes you...you did say he blurted it out. Did he apologize or notice your reaction?
 
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If he seems like a quirky, awkward guy...he's a perv and don't bother anymore.

If he seems smart, witty, intelligent, then its humor.
 
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Ha, that's . . . different. Maybe he was trying to be funny? Date nerves can lead people to make some pretty bad jokes. Did he laugh at himself when he said it? Or do something weird, like touch you? How was the rest of the date? Was he otherwise pleasant and respectful? If you get the creepy vibe from him, go with your gut.
 
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Italia2010 wrote :
Yup, can you imagine that! time and time again I want to give these guys the benefit of the doubt! and then they end up with this type of stuff (*&$%). I didn't give this guy any sensual/sexual indication. He is newly divorced (2 years) - seems nice but needy (yup, I'm sure of that!) Was he just trying to be funny . . . or that's just what most of these guys are looking for? Easy online sex . . .! I think I'm going to be straight up with him and tell him exactly how I felt about his comment and that he should go on his merry way. Feedback, please! gracias.
I'm going to go out on a limb and say there won't be third date, huh?
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Well he did try holding my hand after that - but NO he didn't apologize. Then he started to say that he was seeing another female from eHarmony and that it's hard to balance life and two females, etc. So that he needs to make a decision. My statement was: my intentions for now, are at a "friend" state and have no other expectations. Jesus . . . it's only our 2d date. I did tell him initially that he was not physically attractive to me but that I wanted to give it a try. He was kinda of creepy and then we we bid farewell in the restaurant parking lot he stated "why are these hugs always so short?" Oh well, I guess I am not attracted to him. So, yes, follow my intuition. He's just a horny toad from Texas!!
 
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Sigh.

i don't think this is a huge deal and i agree with Sanders. if he seemed otherwise normal, then he was either joking or uh, i dunno a grown-up who can express that in a matter of fact way.

i mean seriously, two adults can have a conversation about sex without it being creepy or weird. it's going to come up sooner or later.




 
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u got it --- No 3rd date.
 
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