Am I Neurotic or Is she Emotionally inept?

Why are you using another site with survey style answers for people to choose? That is not the best way to get advice for each of your questions. You only give us the options that are things YOU have thought of. We might think of something different.

Is this where we get to be a human 8 ball?

I say 'tard.

Helpful?

In need of advice!

Am I Neurotic or Is she an Emotional-Tard?

Transboundary-
I think you are a Newbie here and don't understand the "rules" very well.
That said, I think that the situation you describe is a disaster in the making.

In need of advice!

Am I Neurotic or Is she an Emotional-Tard?

I appreciate your opinions and comments! I'm looking for brutal honesty here, folks.

Players - Sarah, Dave (the X) and Myself.

Background - Sarah and Dave were together for about 2 years. She ended their relationship in August but still cares for him deeply. She carries guilt for hurting him and he wants nothing more then to get back together with her.

I met Sarah in May on our beach volleyball team. We hit it off we wanted to explore each other romantically. We spent many post-game evenings at the local pub discussing each other and our desire to be together. We're drawn to each other.

Current - Sarah and Dave meet for lunch daily. The frequently spend weekend days and evenings together. Last Saturday they spent all day hiking and and hanging out on a beach (where Sarah went topless - it's legal here).

Last night she called me around 10. Sarah and Dave spent the evening together and, after 6 beer, she was quite drunk.

She insists her intentions are just to maintain a friendship with him, she has no romantic interest in Dave.

She has not told Dave about us dating. I've made it clear that that doesn't sit well considering the time they spend together. She insists she will tell him but wanted to wait for more time to pass.