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Wow, strips clubs, and 3 AM meetings. ALL NOT GOOD!!!
- September 28th, 2009, 06:30 am
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Ha ha - now that tickles my funny bone!
Yep...but wasn't funny at the time....I felt like I was at the Spanish Inquisition because he kept grilling me about my life, childhood, exes, relationships....etc.

All I could do was give non-committal answers while waiting for the painful date to end! He was a true mess! ...LOL
- September 28th, 2009, 06:52 am
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i had the opposite experience- i had a first date with a man who was a good communicator online but in RL he couldn't utter a word. i had to really work to keep the conversation flowing. it was exhausting.
- September 28th, 2009, 06:56 am
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I met a guy online, we exchanged a couple of very pleasant emails, decided to meet for lunch...

He proceeded to talk nonstop, tell me everything, that his kids were messed up, his wife died of alcohol poisoning...then, he asked, very flat and matter of fact if I was really a blonde...

I had another date, met thru EH where he rode his bike to meet me for coffee...he was all sweaty, in sloppy clothes...and did not offer to buy my coffee...very quickly, he launches in on how his recently ex girlfriend broke into his house, stole all of his guns and money..and just finished filing a restraining order...

Another one...had a GREAT, really wonderful date with a very attractive, funny, intelligent man, just completed an iron man...he treated me to a fabulous evening, and gave me a rather nice goodnight kiss...The next morning, before 9:00 am, he called, told me he had been up all night, planning, wiht no sleep at all...he had the next 3 months weekends/dates planned out, plans that included my children, who, of course, had not met yet...it gave me a chill, I asked what was going on, and he admitted he was bipoloar and off his meds...

I have a couple more...lol
- September 28th, 2009, 12:55 pm
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This is pretty disturbing but I'll share anyway.

I was once asked by a man if I could breast feed him. I refused to even justify that with a response.
- September 28th, 2009, 04:39 pm
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legend29 wrote :
One man wanted me to take off me shoes so that he could see my feet...it was dead of winter...(I hate foot-fetish men!)
...and yet another weirdo kept asking me to make eye contact with him while he talked (and he talked a lot...I don't think he shut-up the entire date!). He said it made him uncomfortable when I looked away, so I spent the entire evening trying to maneuver a meal and drink while looking at him...I felt like I was in a staring contest!
Eww....eww...eww...

Seriously...why are these stories mostly about men? I mean every time I talk to a woman whose done online dating it's just amazing the crazy stories I hear.
- September 28th, 2009, 09:58 pm
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The men haven't come out to play yet.

There are some seriously crazy women out there, who match the crazy men.

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maybe we should introduce them?
- September 29th, 2009, 08:58 pm
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simplemind wrote :
The men haven't come out to play yet.

There are some seriously crazy women out there, who match the crazy men.

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OMG....one time a woman wanted me to open a door for her, and then she even expected me to pay for her chalupas.

And another woman...refused to have sex on a first date. While still another woman wouldn't go out with me because I used the 3-day rule before calling her. There are some seriously crazy chicks out there!
- September 29th, 2009, 09:02 pm
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Oh the stories I could tell! The very first guy I had a date with that I met from online (not EH) turned out to be quite disturbing. He kept making some comment about "Crisco and cocoa" over and over and licking his lips. Maybe I'm naive, but I didn't have the nerve to ask him what the heck he was talking about, lol. No second date with him!
- September 30th, 2009, 12:47 am
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maybe he wanted to bake you a cake.
- September 30th, 2009, 08:24 am
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